seachange Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 ...could it be a condom issue? You said there's no problem with hand jobs or blowjobs. Guys sometimes lose some sensitivity with condoms, don't they? But I'm not saying don't use them (!!), just wondering if it's a possible explanation.
Mz. Pixie Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 I too have a high sex drive- I've NEVER turned my guy down and I frequently approach him!
Horse Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 I think this website has an unusually high percentage of women with high libidos and men who will never cheat. In my real world most of the guys I know have cheated and most of the ones in long term relationships say they don't get enough sex.
Mary3 Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Lol Horse That was funny. We could take a poll and ask the girls here to say " Yea we like it ALOT ! Nothing wrong with a good high libido..
GoingAgainstGrain Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 I hate to go against the grain, and I do not know if my situation is similar to yours or not. I have been in a committed relationship for the past year. My GF definitely has a higher sex drive than I do, but this difference has been compounded by additional factors. She has put on weight over the past year which has definitely affected my attraction toward her. I am not saying that if she lost weight that we would still have the same sex drive, I am just saying it probably would help. The fact that my GF has a higher sex drive, and we are not having sex as frequently as she would like is more of a problem for her than me, although fundamentaly it is a problem for the relationship. I would point out though, that I care more about her as a person, than her as a means for getting off, so even if we never had sex, I would still be in a relationship with her. I have mentioned to her on several occassions that I thought she could be so much more attractive if she worked out (like I do) so I knows how I feel, but it seems cruel to be any more blunt.
Mary3 Posted August 28, 2005 Posted August 28, 2005 GAG for short.....you have perfect right to expect her to keep herself in nice shape....getting into a relationship does not mean you let everything break loose....I know I always cared how I looked to myself and to my partner. She may not truly see how she really looks... Sometimes it takes a wake up call..
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