My boyfriend only said he's "a bit" excited to have sex with me? Is this a red flag?

[darkmoon]

just say you'll settle for cuddles, and then cuddle him

 

"intimacy" and "close" sound like a textbook of therapy, just be cute and affectionate

 

use sex toys for his days off, when he has them, no pressure for him

[preraph]

Scaring him? HA. That's naturally how I act and that's exactly the kind of person I was when he met me. He knows this is how I am. I doubt he was scared when I said that because that's how I usually act and we have been together for 3 months, so he would say something about it if I was.

 

It's too much pressure. Do you want him to think you're Pepe Le Pew?

[joseb]

If you are so horny, why have you not had sex with this guy in three months?

 

Are you seeing others?

 

If not, it makes no sense really.

 

What has stopped you from having sex together?

[whichwayisup]

Yeah but his sex drive was pretty high a few weeks ago. Now it's just not there and he doesn't get horny

 

People who have low sex drives can feel sexual and have times when they are horny.

 

It's gonna come to this, you two aren't sexually matched and later this will cause issues especially since you are a very sexual person and have a high drive. He doesn't and I hope you don't expect him to become that as it's out of his control.

[act00]

I take his comment at being a "bit" excited as being facetious, a little dry humor. He's probably very excited. The thing is, you have not had sex yet, so you really don't know if his drive is going to match yours. But, on that same note, why haven't you slept together yet? It sounds like you two have agreed to wait until a certain time?? Or is he just not getting worked up to go the distance when you make out? I'm lost on this conversation all the way around. Incompatibility will be apparent at some point, but right now you don't know, so my thought is to see what happens.