Frazzle Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 I met a girl at a meetup today. We had pretty good conversations and connected well. I asked her for her number and said that we should hang out sometime to which she said yes and gave me her number. Now, in the context of the meetup, does she know that I'm interested in asking her out since I'm asking for her number? Or is it possible that she thinks I'm looking for a friend since it is a meetup after all? I can't tell if she's single or not. Would she give out her number and agree to "hang out" if she has a boyfriend?
justwhoiam Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 does she know that I'm interested in asking her out since I'm asking for her number? She must have considered that. It's a possibility when someone asks for your number. It at least goes through your mind. Or is it possible that she thinks I'm looking for a friend since it is a meetup after all? That's a possibility too. It's both. I can't tell if she's single or not. Test the waters. Ask her: Hi. I was just wondering: what do you usually do on Saturday night? Do you go out with boyfriend, with friends, what exactly? Would she give out her number and agree to "hang out" if she has a boyfriend? Possible, unless you made clear you want to go out with her on a date.
basil67 Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 If you were at a friendly meet up (not dating) and ask to "hang out" then she will probably assume you want friendship.
d0nnivain Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 Solely from what you posted, it's impossible to tell. There is one way to find out: Call her & ask her on a date. 1
carhill Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 OP, I'll bookend on the other's advice to suggest, in the future, when you meet someone and feel the interaction would be a better fit as a dating interaction, flow the conversation into a bit of flirtation and at an appropriate moment suggest you and she continue it over dinner. Since you've already met in person, no need for a first meeting in a casual situation; you're face to face. If there's anything there, it's there. Strike while the moment is now. If she has a boyfriend or husband she'll either tell you or lie when you ask her out on a date. Can't control what people do. I've had women do both. Part of the risk of romance. It's a date, not a marriage proposal. Good luck!
Miss Spider Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 No way just because you asked for her contact info at a meetup. Meetups are first for social networking and meeting people, not necessarily dating. You need to make your intentions more clear. Flirt with her and ask her on a dinner date. She should then get the hint.
ohso Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 Well just talk to her when you see her and take it from there. She may even change her mind when she gets to know you better. You never know.
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