MeadowFlower Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 On a first meeting with a guy/date, do you prefer the girl to wear makeup or not to wear makeup? Also, what do you like her to wear? And before you go and say it, I'll say it for you: everyone's different. Still, opinions please.
Happy Lemming Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 Makeup = YES!! Little black dress and cute strappy heels... Just my preference.
Author MeadowFlower Posted January 27, 2018 Author Posted January 27, 2018 Makeup = YES!! Little black dress and cute strappy heels... Just my preference. So say the girl didn't wear any makeup, except foundation and blush, would that make you feel like she didn't put any effort in? Thank you for responding.
staggerlee71 Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 this is insane. first off, be yourself second, he more worried about his presentation than yours third, go have fun dammit 3
Happy Lemming Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 So say the girl didn't wear any makeup, except foundation and blush, would that make you feel like she didn't put any effort in? Thank you for responding. No, you are still putting forth the effort. Personally, I like a woman to look feminine when I am with her. The little black dress and cute strappy heels makes you look like a woman. I think I commented about one woman that wore baggy jeans and a T-shirt for a date; I felt like I was going out with my brother. She didn't even try. Just be a woman for him, be feminine!! Show him you are the woman!!
Mrin Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 I want her to look like she got ready for a date rather than came there after the gym, the couch or the office (without checking the mirror). She doesn't have to be completely dressed up (in fact she shouldn't be) - just an indication that she cares about her appearance and she's taking the date seriously. That she put some effort in. As for clothes - whatever makes her feel pretty. Notice I didn't say comfortable because let's face it, what truly makes her feel comfortable are fleece dorm pants, the oversized t-shirt she's had since college and her ex-boyfriend's hoodie that she forgot to return. I learned the hard way to always tell her where we are going, what we might do and how we are going to get there so she can plan accordingly. This is especially critical when it comes to footwear. 2
staggerlee71 Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 I just care about the words coming out of her mouth 4
jay1983 Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 I started to just straight up tell them I'm going to be in a t-shirt and ballcap, so they don't over dress. 1
basil67 Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 I'm with Staggerlee - this is insane. The most important thing to be on a date is yourself. If you like makeup, wear it. If you don't like it, then don't wear it. Same goes for the rest of your outfit. 1
basil67 Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 As for clothes - whatever makes her feel pretty. Notice I didn't say comfortable because let's face it, what truly makes her feel comfortable are fleece dorm pants, the oversized t-shirt she's had since college and her ex-boyfriend's hoodie that she forgot to return. Goodness. Is this the only style of comfortable you know? What about loose dresses and sandals on a hot, humid day. Or jeans, a sweater and flat boots in winter? 1
road Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 Dress for the activity. That cute little black dress and heels does not work for every kind of date. A woman can look hot in sneakers, jeans, and a snug T shirt. 4
FilterCoffee Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 Jeans, cute t shirt and sandals works for me! Honestly though, I would be fine with anything. Makeup is not a requirement but she needs to look fresh. How do you normally prepare OP? 1
FilterCoffee Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 Dress for the activity. A woman can look hot in sneakers, jeans, and a snug T shirt. Absolutely
Mrin Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 Goodness. Is this the only style of comfortable you know? What about loose dresses and sandals on a hot, humid day. Or jeans, a sweater and flat boots in winter? I'm good with those too. I live in Colorado - so what you described is what we call "formal attire". Kidding. Almost. ;-)
CptInsano Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 Dress for the activity. That cute little black dress and heels does not work for every kind of date. A woman can look hot in sneakers, jeans, and a snug T shirt. Exactly that. Most of my first dates were centered around some form of activity, and pretty much all women dressed appropriately. In other words, I've never had a first date with a woman who wore high heels for the occasion.
alphamale Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 Makeup = YES!! Little black dress and cute strappy heels... Just my preference. hmm...I like it
Miss Spider Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 (edited) Dress for the activity. That cute little black dress and heels does not work for every kind of date. A woman can look hot in sneakers, jeans, and a snug T shirt. Yea. A lil black dress and strappy heels is sexy but probably too much(or not enough) on an afternoon coffee meet in 5 degree weather. Edited January 27, 2018 by Cookiesandough
ChatroomHero Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 Too much makeup is a turn off. I kinda prefer little to no makeup, but I tend to go for women that don't wear a lot of makeup. As far as dressing, I am not fashionally literate, but I think I can tell when a woman wore her favorite shirt, or a dress that she knows she looks hot in. When I notice, I feel like I am worthy of her trying to make a good impression. It's hard to explain, but you know they tried to look good even without over doing it and didn't just show up in what they would wear for work. I guess I judge it off myself, if I showed up wearing work clothes, dress pants and a button up shirt, I'm kind of phoning it in. But I know what I look good in if I am trying to impress someone and I think I can see it with women. Some showed up like they came right from work, it wouldn't set them apart. But some of them wore a shirt or outfit or whatever you call it, where I could just tell, they knew they rocked it. I would say little makeup and that one thing you like to wear when trying to impress and you are good. The particulars don't really matter. My favorite was a girl that came over with jeans, like a dark reddish/brown leather jacket and an AC/DC shirt underneath. It worked. She knew it worked when she put it on. It sounds like it was no big deal, but she rocked the hell out of it. 2
FilterCoffee Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 My favorite was a girl that came over with jeans, like a dark reddish/brown leather jacket and an AC/DC shirt underneath. It worked. She knew it worked when she put it on. It sounds like it was no big deal, but she rocked the hell out of it. That's nice...
nospam99 Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 Virgin-killing sweater (look it up) [nospam, in an upbeat and playful mood today, ducks for cover again] 1
Casper. Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 When I first met my gf she was on a night out, from what i remember she was wearing some sort of black dress! She looked hot! I went out with her the the next day to eat, i have such a clear image in my head even now of her walking up to me that day, she had much less make up on and was wearing like black jeans, a beachy cropped t-shirt, a leather jacket and a bright bandana in her hair which was tied up, and like about 500 different necklaces! It suited her, she looked on point!! I sat there like 'man she looks amazing' and i'm not a bloke that would usually pay much attention to women fashion, but the thing that i liked, what caught my attention, was how much personality was in her outfit, she didnt look like some shop window mannequin, it screamed who she was.......and i liked who she was! ....and she smelled amazing!
drakon12 Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 On a first meeting with a guy/date, do you prefer the girl to wear makeup or not to wear makeup? Also, what do you like her to wear? And before you go and say it, I'll say it for you: everyone's different. Still, opinions please. Just show that you care. Last year I had a date with this girl, she wore what she'd wear for university but her hands were a mess, she put on some lipstick but it was in pieces, you know what I mean. Seemed like she didn't care one bit. Avoid that. Good hygiene and some extra effort to show you care is good enough.
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