Sonicrules14 Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 During the beginning of December, I was interested in this guy I worked with and he ended up giving me his number/snapchat info. But after only a few days, I realized I was initiating/carrying most of the conversation via text messages... and he just stopped responding to me one day. Made more attempts, continued to be ignored. And he would avoid me at work afterwards. I took the hint, deleted his nunber, and moved on. Today, I received a text asking how I was doing. I didn't recognize the number and asked who it was. The response was, "Ok, nevermind." I didn't realize it was him until a few hours later. I also saw that he removed me as a friend on snapchat today because of that. I genuinely didn't know it was him at the time.... Why did he get mad when he was the one that curved me more than a month ago?
I'veseenbetterlol Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 During the beginning of December, I was interested in this guy I worked with and he ended up giving me his number/snapchat info. But after only a few days, I realized I was initiating/carrying most of the conversation via text messages... and he just stopped responding to me one day. Made more attempts, continued to be ignored. And he would avoid me at work afterwards. I took the hint, deleted his nunber, and moved on. Today, I received a text asking how I was doing. I didn't recognize the number and asked who it was. The response was, "Ok, nevermind." I didn't realize it was him until a few hours later. I also saw that he removed me as a friend on snapchat today because of that. I genuinely didn't know it was him at the time.... Why did he get mad when he was the one that curved me more than a month ago? Prob wasn't happy that you weren't chasing after him, just forget about him. He was prob reaching out because he had no other women. God on you for deleting his number. 4
Author Sonicrules14 Posted January 26, 2018 Author Posted January 26, 2018 Yeah... I guess I bruised his ego or something. 2
Zahara Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 Yeah... I guess I bruised his ego or something. You went from chasing to "who are you" -- that probably kicked his fragile ego. Don't text him again. 3
act00 Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 In this situation, I see no issues with dropping the number, but when I read the subject, I thought something totally different. I've dated a couple guys who didn't save my number. I guess they never do (they said) with anyone other than close family or friends. I guess that's fine, but the fact that I wasn't important enough to add me to the address book didn't sit too well with me since we went out for a good three months and things were seemingly going quite well...obviously not as well as I thought. For you, not only did he drop responding or texting, he obviously avoided you at work, so you took the hint and moved on. You definitely bruised his ego. He back-burnered you and you didn't remain an orbiter...you happily went about your life..."who's this?" 2
phineas Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 I used to put online women in my phone only after first date. usually as: POF name okcupid name tinder name bumble name. If I didn't hear from them in over a week I deleted. they would get mad and butt-hurt when they would hit me up after a few weeks and I had no idea who they were. They ignored me when I contacted them and ghosted me for a few weeks and couldn't understand why I didn't keep their number? lol. I guess some people think they are sooo awesome the opposite sex is just waiting for them to hit them up and reality is a blow to their ego. 2
Maggie4 Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 This guy avoided you at work, ok? That alone tells you how weird and ill-adjusted he is. Aren't you glad he left you alone? 3
Highndry Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 This poor guy has a number of issues. I think you dodged a bullet. 3
Author Sonicrules14 Posted January 26, 2018 Author Posted January 26, 2018 This poor guy has a number of issues. I think you dodged a bullet. I think I did, too. Out of boredom, I looked up this guy's instagram. Turns out he's dating a 16 year old. I'm 22 and he's 20. 1
callmegm Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 I think I did, too. Out of boredom, I looked up this guy's instagram. Turns out he's dating a 16 year old. I'm 22 and he's 20. Yikes. Four year difference when it comes to dating isn't that bad... but no one in their early 20s should be dating a 16 year old. 2
Author Sonicrules14 Posted January 26, 2018 Author Posted January 26, 2018 Yikes. Four year difference when it comes to dating isn't that bad... but no one in their early 20s should be dating a 16 year old. I mean... it does explain his immature response. Lol 1
Sara1989 Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 Yikes. Four year difference when it comes to dating isn't that bad... but no one in their early 20s should be dating a 16 year old. Yes, oh my.
Steve51 Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 How are we supposed to know when you know a lot more about him than we do? Obviously he has no intentions towards you so why are you so hung up on a guy who is treating you this way? Social media friends are not real friends. Those who lack self confidence and are cowards use social media to do things that they are afraid to do via phone or face to face. I can list any girl as my girlfriend on social media and change it daily. It means nothing at all and to look for meaning in it is a waste of time. When I was interested in a woman I called her and we talked or better yet called her and asked to met for a drink or a burger. That is how you meet a person that is worth your attention.
smackie9 Posted January 26, 2018 Posted January 26, 2018 maybe he needed someone to bootleg for them.
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