hanksandbubbles Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 hey everyone! not sure if this is the right post to write this in, but i'll write anyways I will be returning to university soon, the same unversity of my ex from 4 months ago. We've had no contact all summer, except for the 2 msn convos initiated by me back in June. Since then, I found out that he has a new girlfriend. So here's my problem: I'm anticipating the run-in. I know it's bound to happen, especially since he will be living 2 min away from me AND that his friend is going out with my best friend. We never ended on bad terms, however, he promised a friendship, coffee meeting etc etc. And non-surprisingly, he never came through for me. I have no clue how i'm going to react when I see him, or visa versa. Just wondering, how have you guys handled this situation? Did the dumper ever consolidate or anything? I don't really want to see him again, since I believe that it would just stir up past emotions that I've worked so hard at putting behind me. I'm trying not to anticipate it, considering I just get even more stressed out. But still, I can't help but imagine the different scenarios that can happen. Thanks! HB
Merin Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 When you see him smile, say hello... DON'T ask about him or what he's been up too. DON'T ask him IF he still wants to have coffee' with you. DON'T give him any 411 regarding what you've been up too. Keep it brief, say hello, good to see you and walk away. Good Luck
kscholze Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 I agree, it doesn't sound like you really have any emotional attachment to him. Make sure he knows that he blew any chance of friends by not showing any interest in his life now
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