true26 Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 figured out yet why the pull is so great towards someone who can be so unavailable? This is killing me. Just one of those days I suppose. Know you shouldn't contact, want nothing more than to. Same old, same old.
lynnspies1 Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 It is human nature to want what we can't have. It is also only a human quality to be able to draw the line between right and wrong. Otherwise we are no different than dogs who have not concept of right and wrong, they just do what feels good and what is necessary to survive. Lynn
aklost101 Posted August 26, 2005 Posted August 26, 2005 it's not that we seek out married people, it's that we meet people and fall for them while they happen to be married. true, we don't put a stop to it before its' too late. we don't put a stop to it when we find out or realize their heart is in someone else's hands, even though we know we should just walk away and never look back. we think we're strong enough to resist the lure of them; our heads tell us no, our hearts tell us yes. we lie to ourselves as much as they lie to us. "i don't really love my wife" is as much of a lie as "we're just friends" b/c really now, if we were just friends would our pulse speed up when we look at the caller id and see their number? would our faces light up at the memory of something that only "we" share? we don't seek out men who are married... in another time, another place, it would be a fairy tale.
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