Girlie Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Well, I'm not the other woman, yet, but I feel like i could be heading in that direction if I don't put a stop to it. I've been friends with this guy for years, and we actually dated at one point, but it was just bad timing for both of us. He was married just a couple of months ago, but has recently been flirting with me, and being very forward about the fact that he would like to have sexual relations. I feel like a shmuck for even flirting back, which I admit I do, though I haven't done anything else. It's just that I never completely got over our relationship not working out in the first place, and I've always had a crush on him. Since the day I met him. I know it's wrong to even flirt, and that I have to put a stop to this NOW, but who knew it would be so hard? You know, when he got married, I thought, ok, this is it, he's not available. I was fine. I mean there's a part of you that's like....damn! He's taken! But you deal with it and move on. And then he approached me and all of these emotions came over me. I thought I was over it and everything, and then he has to go and say something. I know what I have to do. I guess I just wanted a place to cry and vent because it's much harder to say no than I thought it would be.
justcallmesnug Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Originally posted by Girlie I know what I have to do. I guess I just wanted a place to cry and vent because it's much harder to say no than I thought it would be. There are many of us who understand your feelings. Read through all of the threads about the women here who got involved with married men (MM), and I hope it will be an incentive for you to not get involved with this man! Snug
lynnered Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 i would advise him if he was legally separated or divorced , U may be interested in him, like justcallmesnug said,read through the posts , its not fun ,and it would be alot easier to not do it then go through the pain involved good luck
Author Girlie Posted August 25, 2005 Author Posted August 25, 2005 Thanks. I know there are a lot of stories here that would make me think twice about doing anything with this guy. I'm just sad right now. This is someone I wanted for a long time and I'm like, why now? Why did he have to say anything? I was doing fine.
lynnered Posted August 27, 2005 Posted August 27, 2005 Originally posted by Girlie Thanks. I know there are a lot of stories here that would make me think twice about doing anything with this guy. I'm just sad right now. This is someone I wanted for a long time and I'm like, why now? Why did he have to say anything? I was doing fine. had id known what i know now or had LS i would not have done it! love does not conquer all. and even if he ends up leaving it'll be a roller coaster for u, Tell him if he wants u, leave get himself together (where he wont be bring u drama&heartache) my MM was someone i wanted for a long time to &trust me its not worth it , 75%of the time the last few days i wish i never met him, he finally left W , and its more miserable for me then when he was with her , all the things he said haven't happend its only been 2 weeks since he left but still he's unstable ,an a**h*** lately,not even thinking of me ,just himself its not fun , I've wasted 4years of my life and now he finally leaves , and i have to give him "SPACE" anyway listen to me , if he with her or hasn't been moved out at least a couple of months , i would tell him look me up when ur free goodluck
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