Would you get into a relationship with someone even if you knew it wouldn't last?

[smackie9]

From a prophet, palm reader, gypsy, voodoo master, horoscope, or any other higgery jiggery, F no. I think I'm able to make sound decisions on my own. Common sense is all it takes. If I knew myself it wouldn't last I would not have any expectations and just enjoy the time with them while it lasts. I have np moving on, did it before....it's doesn't kill ya.

[SevenCity]

Hi SevenCity,.

 

I too have personally loved and lost and had great pain from those losses. And...

 

I am presently with the love of my life and have NEVER loved anyone quite as deeply as I do her.

 

 

Me too. Then she left.

 

Tell me how you feel if this one doesn’t pan out.

[she'stheone]

Me too. Then she left.

 

Tell me how you feel if this one doesn’t pan out.

 

I understand how much that can hurt and again, I am truly sorry for the pain you were and are in.

 

If she leaves, or it ends, it will hurt and I will mourn. That is part of the process.

 

What I have learned, is, we lose people throughout our lives, mothers, fathers, sons, daughters, husbands, wives, family, friends and lovers.

 

And when that happens, there is a hole in our lives where that person used to fit. As we mourn our loss, clear the pain (as I've said many times, I cry a lot) we begin to heal and grow.

 

I will work on my pain, clear it (however long it takes) and move on.

 

It is ONLY because of my personal development and spiritual work, that I found this amazing woman I am with today.

 

I learned to release my pain (not all, it's always a work in progress), trust and love myself deeply enough to love and trust another the same way.

 

If it doesn't work out, I know I will be OK, not at first of course, but eventually, with time, and healing I will learn to love and trust again, as I have done in the past.

 

Do some personal development/spiritual work. Clear the pain and you will find yourself more able to trust and love again.

 

Sending you much love and light

[LuckyM]

Yes only if I thought I would really enjoy it as long as it lasts and she is very good looking.

 

If I had to wait for just the right woman who is perfect for me I never would have dated at all. Why wait? The very best choice for you may be a very long wait or never. Sex without love is often better than nothing--to me. Is it to you?