ryanjonker39 Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Hi there. I have a question. My girlfriend, which I have just moved in with 2 months ago after about a year of dating, is having a 'spaz' attack... I think. We have had our differences through-out time and have always resolved them, whether it was me that needed tp change, or if it was her.. Last month I was very stressed out due to an excessive amount of chest pains, and arm pains... This put stress on our relationship, but we worked it out as far as I understood. Lately, she has been getting very bad kneck pains, and has needed to goto a chiropractor, but it seems to be getting better. OK, I'll get to the point. Two nights ago, I had this crazy dream that woke me up screaming and out of breath. Ever since then she wont talk to me, she says that it's one thing after another with me, and she says that she wants me to leave.. She hadn't had very much sleep for the two prior days, and then I did that..>Totally unintentional of course, but it did happen! I really dont want to break up with my her, but she seems to want to with me ---over that--?! When I ask her if this situation can be rectified, she claims there is no situation to be rectified, she just doesn't care. Any advice you could give me would be greatly appreciated, as I'm going crazy about this.. Thank you so much, Ryan
country gal Posted August 25, 2005 Posted August 25, 2005 sounds to me that things have been building up for her which she may or may not have mentioned before (my guess is the latter)... and now this "little" thing was the last straw. or to put it another way, she may have been looking for a way out and now shes jumping on it. i hope i'm wrong, but if not, let her go and find someone who wants to be with you whole-heartedly. until you know, let her know that you dont want her to go nad then just give her her space...its in her court now. good luck..
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