Chuck Woolery Posted January 22, 2018 Posted January 22, 2018 you just recently broke up and you're replaying every possible scenario, wondering what you could have done differently...if you just would have done xyz then so and so would still be there.. wondering is there something wrong with you...you're not good enough etc... just consider, for a second...that life is just trying to give you something better. and you should let it. in the near future when you're getting kissed goodnight by some exquisite specimen- you'll suddenly understand why your ex picked that fight out of nowhere. 11
DontBreakEven Posted January 24, 2018 Posted January 24, 2018 This really deserves more love, because it's fantastic. Thank you for the reminder
toomanyquestions123 Posted January 25, 2018 Posted January 25, 2018 Thank you for reminding us that a better future is ahead of us.
GoreSP Posted January 25, 2018 Posted January 25, 2018 Thank you for posting this! We should make an effort to keel this one on top for a while.
Boundsella Posted January 25, 2018 Posted January 25, 2018 Thank you, you're message got to me at exactly the right time x 1
BluSpark Posted January 27, 2018 Posted January 27, 2018 Well Chuck...that is a nice message! I broke up with a woman in 2017....and I am MISERABLE about it. I really let a good thing go. I kick myself for being so stupid. She is LONG gone at this point...with another guy. May that provide some comfort to those who were on the other end.
Author Chuck Woolery Posted January 27, 2018 Author Posted January 27, 2018 this just happened to me, which is why i made the post. all of us get so lost inside the situation that we fail to remember what is about to come. shoot, looking at my last relationship...the bizarre course of events and behavior of the person so out of character leading up to the complete implosion of everything...all at just the right time too! then dating again, more strange things happening, especially with people where there's a lot of potential and things are starting to happen...i think there was an ice storm, her phone was shattered and we couldn't make plans, she asked me out but someone asked me out the night before, etc..then she goes to europe for two weeks. during that two weeks someone out of the blue calls...hey would you go on a blind date i know the perfect person for you...then holy f&^% this girl shows up and totally knocks my socks off, and i'm just sitting there, like, wtf just happened?! the course of events leading people into your life is something you just might not ever understand!!
BluSpark Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 ^Good for you Chuck! I hope I can get as lucky as that in 2018!
SevenCity Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 I agree but I'm still waiting for my happy ending. I actually thought about this today. I don't mind spending my Saturday day and night alone because I feel it's just a matter of time. That's my hopefulness talking...
Mystyry Posted January 28, 2018 Posted January 28, 2018 Agree. And I will add that it's good to remember that the break ups rarely happen for no reason. And those reasons are valid, no matter what the post break-up haze will make us believe. Ran across this thread right at an interesting moment. I broke up with an addict ex last year and have been thinking non-stop about whether he is ok, able to keep his life on the right track, now that I am no longer there to support him. Randomly heard yesterday through mutual friends that he quit his job again and is on a cross-country trip getting drunk and stoned, among other things. I am glad I had the strength to walk away. And I am really hopeful for things to get a lot better in the months to come, for pain to go away and for something more positive to enter my life.
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