unit1 Posted January 22, 2018 Posted January 22, 2018 Sorry if it is naïve/childish to ask this , I m adult but after going thru some very tough life experiences, I feel my own chemistry maybe changed, so now I want to know also curious to learn again, I think everyone define Chemistry in a different way. I'd like to hear what is the chemistry for you, and why, will u fight for it and last long ? Thank u
Chilli Posted January 22, 2018 Posted January 22, 2018 Hey unit , nah don't be sorry , everyone goes through crap yaknow. But me , l couldn't explain it and l feel as though l'd be degrading it if l tried, it's kinda sacred stuff. But the thing is , l've also been shown recently that it can also be something else too , completely different , l didn't know that and l wouldn't have accepted it before .
nospam99 Posted January 22, 2018 Posted January 22, 2018 I'd like to hear what is the chemistry for you, and why, will u fight for it and last long ? Thank u Literally, chemistry is the science of how matter behaves - NOT the chemistry we talk about in human relationships. The chemistry usually spoken of on LS and in other romantic contexts is the REACTION two people have to each other. (Probably picked up because the science of chemistry deals extensively in chemical reactions - how matter combines and produces or uses energy and/or other kinds of matter.) Interpersonal chemistry usually depends on the physical appearance and pheromones of the people involved and results in a sexual attraction or not . We also sometimes use the word chemistry to speak of the internal state of our bodies e.g. we say our chemistry is 'off' when we are weakened by our body fighting an infection. Signed by: Nospam the Science Guy 1
Mysterio Posted January 22, 2018 Posted January 22, 2018 Chemistry is like music to me in the context of love. For example. I love Led Zeppelin and I get their style. Not so much Jay Z and Kanye. This is coming from a black man that get odd looks that I love Rock and Roll/Metal/Jazz/Classic Soul. So when I meet a woman. Beyond looks. Does our conversation flow and do we click on other areas of conversation. Are we warm to each other. Do we get each other. Factors like that make me think of chemistry. 2
Author unit1 Posted January 24, 2018 Author Posted January 24, 2018 Thank u everyone for your fascinating and warm words....... it lights the fire for hope. for years and even now ,I would rather stay in online discuss forums than dating a real guy. feel more harm than benefit from them. how to build "trust"in men again, or say the"masculine"? 1
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