Author fixandfix Posted January 18, 2018 Author Posted January 18, 2018 He called and said to meet me at my place, he sounded alrightt. I've told him that I'll talk to him when we meet.
whichwayisup Posted January 18, 2018 Posted January 18, 2018 I work hard! I’m a firefighter that is physical and mental and exhausting! And on top of that I play semi pro football - so that’s evenings and weekends! And then I help out on the farm when I have spare time! I know what it is to work hard! BUT when me and the Mrs started dating I swear I’d of found away to drop everything else in my life and walk on water if that’s what she’d of asked of me!! You know what? We might be married but I still would! Why? Because I want to spend time with the girl, I did then, I do know! Whatever it takes to see her is worth it - because her company is worth it! Her presence is worth it! I want to be with her, even if it’s grocery shopping or something, I’d still rather be with her! And this is us married, past the honeymoon stage, past all that!!! You and your boyfriend are still only dating and yet it’s already too much effort for him to put himself out to see you!? Is that really the kind of guy you want to invest your time in? Or move forward in life with? Cause, well - he doesn’t sound like much of a teammate!! Like the above, if a man is truly interested he will make the effort. 6 years and he is treating you like this and you're still with him? Time to end it. Fact that he suggested you get another boyfriend is his ahole way of ending it but hoping you'll end it first. A man who loves his gf won't say stuff like that. He's a jerk and you can do better. 1
whichwayisup Posted January 18, 2018 Posted January 18, 2018 He called and said to meet me at my place, he sounded alrightt. I've told him that I'll talk to him when we meet. When you two talk make sure to let him know how it makes you feel that he won't compromise or make efforts to make you happy. A relationship has two people! There has to be give and take, equally especially since there's distance between where you two live. Be honest. With him and with yourself. Is this the guy for you? 6 years is a long time to invest in someone -- Is he your future husband or just a long term boyfriend? Where are things heading?
PegNosePete Posted January 18, 2018 Posted January 18, 2018 He called and said to meet me at my place, he sounded alrightt. I've told him that I'll talk to him when we meet. Still not sure what you're planning to say to him. I bet you a cheese sandwich he'll just talk and talk. Maybe he'll promise to change, maybe he'll make YOU feel bad, but whatever he says it will be about HIM him him. And in a month's time you'll be right back here with exactly the same problems. This guy is not going to change. He's just going to give it some lip service to keep you sweet for a little while longer. There's really nothing you can say at this point except this relationship is not working for me and you're clearly not going to change so I am ending it, goodbye. 2
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