whattodo77 Posted January 13, 2018 Posted January 13, 2018 Over the last month i reconnected with an ex from sometime ago. We are both single. We have talked and spent time time together and have been open and honest about the past and our current feelings. We both admitted we still have feelings for each other and I was willing to try again and he didn't want to. We both accepted this was not going to go anywhere but also felt enough time had gone by since the relationship that we care enough for each other to be friends. Things have been great between us. We have been hanging out together, I have been helping him with a work project. All was fantastic and our friendship was better than ever. Tonight I had gone to the bathroom and when I came out I noticed he had my phone in his hand. He looked up at me and said who is XXX and also who is XXX, these are both male friends names. I told him they were both friends and then he said to me to f**k off and and stop messing with his head and to leave him alone and he stormed out of my home. I have no idea what he meant about messing with his head as he knew i wanted to get back together with him but he was the one that didnt want to. And as for the 2 mens names he asked about, there were messages on my phone from these men but there was nothing more than friendly catch ups. Am I wrong to think he got jealous and over reacted? Should i just let this go now and not try to contact him?
basil67 Posted January 13, 2018 Posted January 13, 2018 Forget about the questions he asked and instead be furious that he went through your phone. This is not acceptable in any way, shape or form. 3
1fish2fish Posted January 13, 2018 Posted January 13, 2018 And, to add to Basil's comment, he told you to "F off" and stormed out the door. Very disrespectful and immature. Is he 12? 5
anonymousbear00101100 Posted January 13, 2018 Posted January 13, 2018 He was definitely very jealous, which seems natural. It's not natural to go through your phone and then overreact in the way he did. He doesn't want to be with you but he wants you to be alone -- that doesn't sound like a friendship to me. It sounds like he wanted to keep you around under the guise of friendship while still keeping his options open. You deserve better and can do better. You don't need him as a SO or as a friend. 3
HumanMachine Posted January 13, 2018 Posted January 13, 2018 He wanted to see if you were serious about giving it another go. He assumed that you had other guys on the go. 1
mayonnaise Posted January 14, 2018 Posted January 14, 2018 Honestly, I think he's the one who's messing with your head. How could he go from "I don't want to be in a relationship with you anymore" to "Who is this, who is that?". Plus, "**** OFF" is just plain disrespectful. I would ignore him if I were you. 1
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