Deshedend Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 My first and I broke up a while ago but we were still involved with each other. After a while I made it final. He then decided he wanted to be with my best friend (well ex now best friend now).I did so much stuff for him...also I risked everything for him including my reputation. On July 5th I left to go to College and came back on July 29. A few days after I was home he began to act really funny. He then told me that he did not want to speak to me anymore because he was trying to get things right with my friend me being a of his friend was making that impossible. I said okay.. Then someone called me and said they had saw him with someone else..I was sick(all I could do was think and cry) and now I am trying to figure out the real reason why he doesn't want to speak to me. I called him and he called me all types of names he's very disrespectful. I am leaving to go back to College on the august 26 I don't want to leave things like this. WHAT DO I DO? I have done toooooo much for him to let him treat me like this
Craig Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Take comfort in the fact that if he treated you badly, he'll treat your ex-best friend badly and do the same thing to her. One day you'll get a phone call from your ex-best friend crying her eyes out and seeking comfort and forgiveness from you. You are the winner here You got rid of a loser boyfriend, learned valuable life lessons and in the end can say "I told you so" to your ex best friend (but I know you won't.)
Sal Paradise Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 If you decided you were finished with him then how did he leave you for your friend? If you two were broken up isn't he free to see other people? Yeah it sucks he is dating your friend but you'd probably be upset if he was dating anyone. But thats what a break up is.
J dub Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Perfect example of why being friends with an ex is never a good idea until you've gotten over them. Not to be a know-it-all, but now you can pass along the knowlegde you have about this dolt. Also, dating is all about learning...we give, take, are loved and stomped on. As for leaving things like this, you really need to walk away from him. He disrespected you as you say, and you still want to be on good terms with this jacka$$?? Seriously re-evaluate WHY you want to remain friends with someone who cares so little for you. College is great because you can get AWAY from this nonsense.
RecordProducer Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Well some people suck. You can't make anyone appreciate what you've done for them if they don't. Besides, do you think he should be with you because you have done a lot for him in the past? Do you want him to? I understand what you're saying; after all you've done you deserve some respect, but he is guilty and feels guilty and attacking you is a form of defense. Of course he doesn't want to speak to you, because he feels bad about himself around you. And he calls you names because he wants you to forget him. So please do! You deserve better. You'll find your true love sooner or later. This guy wasn't the one. Move on and remove him from your life completely. Don't talk to him anymore.
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