catherine1 Posted January 11, 2018 Posted January 11, 2018 Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for a year now. We have been happy, and he has always been into me and never gave me any reason to question him. Often I have seen him glance at a girl and after a drink have said about him looking, nothing too over the top just a comment which got left. About a month ago, his phone went and I joked "jacks bitches" which he seemed shocked by. He appeared quiet after this for a while. I told him "have I pissed you off? it was a joke and I wont say things like that" I noticed a distance in his affections and physical closeness to me after this. Over Christmas I sensed these vibes, and things felt different between us. He started leaving me on read on WhatsApp, which he never normally does. We seemed to have cleared all of this up, and things seem to be going back to normal. However, he is still leaving me on read sometimes. It makes me wonder if ive put him off me? I don't want to be a nagging girlfriend over the occasional message. It just doesn't seem like the usual us. Thank you
sala93 Posted January 11, 2018 Posted January 11, 2018 Ask him what's going on. It's not nagging. It sounds like either he's still upset over your joke or he's hiding or confused about something. 1
Gaeta Posted January 11, 2018 Posted January 11, 2018 Like I said a few times *words* are very powerful and we have to be careful how we use them. They can dissolve love and break relationships in an instant. You chose to use words that kill love. If I said something like this to my bf I know it would change how he sees me and it would kill a little something inside him. I would feel the same if he said something like this about me. You cannot fix it for him. Your apology also doesn't sound very heartfelt. It sounded more like a counter-reaction on your part. If I were you I would offer him a *heartfelt* apology in which he can sense you understand the hurt your words have created. Then leave him alone to solve it on his own.
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