OCCDAVE Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Well i met this one girl in 6th grade and we have known each other for 9 years now.I had a huge crush on her but nothing could come of it since her parents are strick as hell and control her life .But still i figure a friendship is better then nothing .Well for the past week or so she's been ignoring my calls/emails which isn't like her which leads me to think she found someone.I can sorta deal with that but this girl wasn't very popurler in school so i would defend her causes me to pretty much get the same treatment of remarks and such.I tried again emailing her but so far no luck any idea what could have happened.Another thing what annoys me not to be a jerk but this girl wasn't that pretty she even had a brown mold on her face that made people say it looked like crap.Yet despite all this i defended her and now in the end i'm broken hearted and didn't gain anything
Breathe Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Don't jump to conclusions so quickly. Maybe she's busy, or her email is down or her computer is broke. It could be a number of things. Ask her next time you see her if she happend to get your email and see what she says.
Devildog Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Wow, were you trying for your sainthood merit badge or something? I just feel such sorrow for you. Here you are lowering yourself to defend some girl you didn't think was all that pretty or popular, and deformed apparently, and she hasn't responded to you lately. Maybe she found out you saw her as some kind of charity case and didn't want your pity.
JS17 Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Originally posted by Devildog Wow, were you trying for your sainthood merit badge or something? I just feel such sorrow for you. Here you are lowering yourself to defend some girl you didn't think was all that pretty or popular, and deformed apparently, and she hasn't responded to you lately. Maybe she found out you saw her as some kind of charity case and didn't want your pity. Maybe he saw the beauty from within this woman. Usually I think you have some pretty spot on things to say DD, I'm just not with ya on this one.
Devildog Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Originally posted by JS17 Maybe he saw the beauty from within this woman. Usually I think you have some pretty spot on things to say DD, I'm just not with ya on this one. His post seems to point out her flaws in detail. Sorry, but my experience, when you do really care about someone, you don't see the flaws. They don't exist to you. My XW was far from being a beauty queen. But throughout the marriage she was the most beautiful woman in the world to me. Now that I have gotten my head cleared from the fog that love brings with it, yeah, I see that she could stand to lose 50-60 lbs. Now OCCDAVE is claiming on one hand that he is heartbroken and on the other pointing out all her flaws. It doesn't add up if he is in fact crazy about her. It sounds to me like he feels she owed him some debt of gratitude for lowering himself to give her a chance. She doesn't. But of course everyone is entitled to disagree with me. I am offering my opinions, and when read a post that smacks of a pity party, I usually get brutally honest.
Author OCCDAVE Posted August 25, 2005 Author Posted August 25, 2005 Originally posted by Devildog His post seems to point out her flaws in detail. Sorry, but my experience, when you do really care about someone, you don't see the flaws. They don't exist to you. My XW was far from being a beauty queen. But throughout the marriage she was the most beautiful woman in the world to me. Now that I have gotten my head cleared from the fog that love brings with it, yeah, I see that she could stand to lose 50-60 lbs. Now OCCDAVE is claiming on one hand that he is heartbroken and on the other pointing out all her flaws. It doesn't add up if he is in fact crazy about her. It sounds to me like he feels she owed him some debt of gratitude for lowering himself to give her a chance. She doesn't. But of course everyone is entitled to disagree with me. I am offering my opinions, and when read a post that smacks of a pity party, I usually get brutally honest. She didn't owe me anything i just was pointing out despite what others said i would be nice to her despite being made fun of at the same time.I still have strong feelings for her and i'm hoping she contacts me
Author OCCDAVE Posted August 25, 2005 Author Posted August 25, 2005 another thing she wasn't deformed she just had this brown birth mark on her face that people said looked like poo
tiadesai Posted August 30, 2005 Posted August 30, 2005 well i think her parents have pressurised her not to meet you again maybe thats why she is ignoring you try few times once more, if she still ignores you then forget it. no use running after someone who avoids you always.
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