Link-80 Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Hey, so I don't know, but I was reading another post here and figured you guys could help. I'm worried I might be becoming too boring around my girlfriend. I mean I am a nice guy, but nver thought I waas predictable. The only thing I'd say is predicatable is that I only see her on the weekend because I work a night shift and she lives 35 minutes away. When I'm at her place I don't always sit with her, sometimes push her away. If we go out for dinner I'll only pay for hers if I feel like it. In person it's great, but for some reason talking online and on the phone ... it's as if I don't have much to talk about. We do love each other, but I still don't know everything about her so it's hard to find conversation pieces. I think this weekend I may try being more unpredictable / daring and ask some blunt questions about what I want to know, because we don't ever really have "in-depth" conversations, even though I know we could. I can always make her laugh and smile, but it feels like I'm missing something. Maybe I'm just reading too much into it. EDIT: Sorry I can't register cuz I'm at work and I accidentally put this in the jealousy forum. Sorry guys!
sburtug03 Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 If you still don't know stuff about her yet, then this is probably one of the reasons as to why you haven't had an 'in depth' conversation. Generally before people can let their guards down, and have conversations such as this, they need to completely know that other person. The two of you may be scared of sharing something the other may not like / disagree with / respond negatively towards. In order to confidently share and have deep conversations, you need to have more of a knowledge of each other and this will take time. Don't rush things or worry about there being 'something missing' as yet, you seem to have a good solid relationship that with time can only get better. x
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