thebiglimp Posted January 9, 2018 Posted January 9, 2018 A friend of a friend, who i met for the first time, gave me her number. We were all drunk, by the way, and she gave me the number without me asking like, hey lets keep in touch. So i immediately start flirting next morning (hahaha...), and she goes are you hitting on me? I say yes and she tells me she doesn't want a relationship right now but we can be besties. Since then the convo's been pretty random and sporadic. How should i read this situation? Cuz i dunno. Shes 30, im 33, little too old and her definitely too busy for a random guy friend when she already has enough friends already. I mean i dont mind a friend and i know ive never been a shtty one, but its my opinion opposite sex friendship is never practical especially if she felt enough interest in me to give me her number. So i figure A) she made a drunken error and covering up for it by being nice to me cuz im kinda in her circle and would run into her eventually. B) she wants to keep the distance to see what kind of a guy i am first before deciding to date. My money's on A right now and i dont mind, but of course, B would be nicer. I just wanted to know what your experiences are in a situation like this.
Author thebiglimp Posted January 9, 2018 Author Posted January 9, 2018 Or C) she really doesnt wanna date right now but keep me in her handbook. Actually C sounds most realistic. And its all good.
BarbedFenceRider Posted January 9, 2018 Posted January 9, 2018 Hilarious...33 and too "old". I'll remember that when I turn 44 next year. sheesh. As for the female....I learned years ago that you can never trust a drunk. (Lots of emergency calls) They mean well, but they are incapable of straight thought. Now albeit the girl is not a habitual drunk. But what I mean is intoxication can lead down weird roads. So, shes cool with being friendly. Move on, also, next time you get a girls number...Remember the 48 rule. Wait 48 hours before you call her.
sdraw108 Posted January 9, 2018 Posted January 9, 2018 Shes 30, im 33, little too old I don't understand 1
Author thebiglimp Posted January 9, 2018 Author Posted January 9, 2018 Never mind i said that please. I meant little too old to be throwing eachother vague signs and playing games
smackie9 Posted January 9, 2018 Posted January 9, 2018 (edited) She was drunk and was living in the moment.....she realized after she sobered up/ you flirting, "Oh no what have I done"...then she friend zoned you to correct her mistake from that night. There you have it....that's what happened. Edited January 9, 2018 by smackie9 1
Miss Spider Posted January 10, 2018 Posted January 10, 2018 She's made it clear you're in friend zone... Just because she has a lot of ffriends doesn't mean she can't want more. 30 and 33 are perfect ages for friends.
Iseult Posted January 10, 2018 Posted January 10, 2018 D. She doesn't need a friend, doesn't want a relationship. She wants the D. Or at least she did when she gave you her number.
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