Break-up but want her back. Wht are my options?

[Papesy87]

Afternoon , my name is Amadou I wanted your input into my situation. I met a girl who we clicked from first day and dated for 6 months we had no problems no fights aswell. On the december 22 i got a text from her saying that she was drunk. And that she was feeling trapped and wanted a break from me. She needs time to fix herself and that she doesn’t want to lose me. I agreed and give her some space. 2 weeks later, she sent me a text telling me thank you for her christmas gift, i answered no problem. So i ask her exactly what she wanted and how this”break” will work she told she doesn’t know, she is a first timer but she know she didn’t want the label bf/gf because if the extreme pressure it was on her. So j ask her if this was a break up she told me yes she think it is and thats how she felt at that moment. I said okay and left it like that. Couple of days later i missed call her by mistake and she responded quickly. I texted her saying it was a mistake, asked her how she was and wish her goodnight. Later on i noticed she has been viewing my intagram posts and videos since we broke up So i wanted to know how to go with the process of getting her back and how to not pressure her again.

Ps: we broke now its been 3 weeks, and she was stressed from her teaching job.

Thanks in advance

 

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[d0nnivain]

Sadly since she dumped you, there is not anything you can do to fix this. She felt pressured in the relationship That might not have anything to do with you. I broke up with my first BF because I was freaked out over the label & the conformity of it all.

 

You were kind & gracious enough to give her a Christmas present. Still as polite & responsive as she is, she is not doing anything to reconcile. Her reading your social media posts is not evidence of a desire to get back together.

 

Anything you do or attempt will only be viewed by her as putting more unwanted pressure on her. You are in a no win situation. All you can do is let her go & move on.

[HumanMachine]

She’s clearly not interested in you regardless of how blissful you perceive the relationship to had been. You need to block her and go nc. Time to move on.

[mayonnaise]

Right now, there's nothing you can do. Anything you will do will be perceived as 'pressuring' her. Give her space.

 

I say she's confused. I think she hates the feeling of getting pressured into a relationship, but still wants to check if you're still there in case she changes her mind. Maybe that's why she checks up on you every now and then to see what you're up to... Have you moved on or not? But that's just my guess. I don't know her too well.

 

I guess it's best if you just give her space. Stay no contact for now. If she wants you back, she will let you know. No mixed signals needed.

[Papesy87]

I didnt move on. Ehat am i doing right nowis just focus on myself and thats it. My priorities sre already set and her name or the relationship don’t even come up. Like you say i am giving her the space she needs. Thanks again for the reply to my post.