Cobra_X Posted January 12, 2018 Posted January 12, 2018 This "slut-shaming" thing is quite terrible and guys need to get over it. Girls like/love sex just as much as guys do. It doesn't mean they want a relationship any less. Why not see whether the two of you really hit it off personality-wise? Or is it really ego that's standing in your way. Perhaps guys don't want to date a girl thinking she's slept with more people than he has? And basically you've just proved why some girls feel a need to "lie" because of this slut-shaming guys do. If guys were just cool with it girls may not feel a need to put up this facade. This whole attitude just makes me sad. You have completely rejected reality in favor of some kind of fantasy land. I wish you the best and I hope this works out for you. If you ever get cheated on or dumped... look back on this conversation and realize your delusion is the cause. I understand the double standard and i dont believe in slut shaming. What they do is their option unless it concerns me. I dont mind that othere sleep around and love to have sex and they occassionally make small lies to get aeay with it. I feel its entirely different when two people talk serious about a relationship and the one needs to lie and cancel a date planned just to go have extra fun. Why not do this to the one you're currently talking to, sex will come eventually? I just say be honest. There is no reason to shame anyone. There is no shame in women wanting sex... it's how we are made. What you must understand is what makes a man attractive to women, and why they cheat and lie to men who fail to project emotional strength. Most people here are going to tell you that you picked the wrong girl. That's not true. The majority of women will treat you just as bad as you allow them to. The same is true of how men treat women. It's very likely she found you attractive in some way... but you failed to be emotionally attractive to her, which made you low status. She will NOT be feeling bad about how she treated you. I'm exhorting you to understand how attraction works and to change yourself for the better.
neowulf Posted January 12, 2018 Posted January 12, 2018 @d0nnivain I'm on Tinder and looking to date seriously. I've also seen ppl who met their significant others on Tinder. You shouldn't be so quick to generalize. Yeah no man. I don't know where people go the idea that Tinder was somehow for commitment minded singles, but *nothing* about the app encourages it. Sure, some people might have found their partners though it, but I wouldn't be surprised if they were the exception more than the rule.
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