IshaKaur011 Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 My boyfriend is searching for his ex on social media. His ex girlfriends Mum unblocked him on Facebook, so he blocked her back. He’s tried using me to make her jealous too and spoken about her to his family. We haven’t seen each other in 7 weeks. However, he’s blocked his ex on Facebook and Snapchat.
kendahke Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 To answer the question in the title: yes He's a bit too extra to be over someone. How long ago did they break up? How long was he broken up when he met you? How long have you two been dating? Has he been pining for her the entire time he's been dealing with you? 1
Author IshaKaur011 Posted January 6, 2018 Author Posted January 6, 2018 To answer the question in the title: yes He's a bit too extra to be over someone. How long ago did they break up? How long was he broken up when he met you? How long have you two been dating? Has he been pining for her the entire time he's been dealing with you? We've been together 2 years. He wanted to reconcile with her, but that didn't work out well. 1/2 months later we started dating. He speaks about her to his cousin. He used to crop me out of his pictures, I think he tells me to post profile pictures of us so she can see. If he loves her, why has he blocked her on Facebook and Snapchat? Why did he block her Mum? Why not just speak to her?
kendahke Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 How long ago did they break up? How long were they together? Why did they break up?
Author IshaKaur011 Posted January 6, 2018 Author Posted January 6, 2018 How long ago did they break up? How long were they together? Why did they break up? Just over 2 years ago. 3 years. His family didn't approve of him being with her.
Author IshaKaur011 Posted January 6, 2018 Author Posted January 6, 2018 I’d say all signs point to yes:((( What signs?
stillafool Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 Yes he's still in love with her. He let his family ruin it for him. 1
Miss Spider Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 What signs? Out of 3 yr relationship and with you 1/2 months later ✓ Because it didn’t work with her but he wanted it to ✓ Because he never wanted to break up but external circumstances ✓ Still checking for her on FB ✓ Weird behavior with the blocking ✓ Has tried using you to make her jealous ✓ Still speaks of her to his family 2 yr later ✓ Cropped you out of pictures for awhile ✓ Sneaking suspicion he’s tried using you to make her jealous ✓ You have seen each other for 7 weeks??? 6
alphamale Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 Out of 3 yr relationship and with you 1/2 months later ✓ Because it didn’t work with her but he wanted it to ✓ Because he never wanted to break up but external circumstances ✓ Still checking for her on FB ✓ Weird behavior with the blocking ✓ Has tried using you to make her jealous ✓ Still speaks of her to his family 2 yr later ✓ Cropped you out of pictures for awhile ✓ Sneaking suspicion he’s tried using you to make her jealous ✓ You have seen each other for 7 weeks??? ^^^this^^^
Author IshaKaur011 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Posted January 7, 2018 Yes he's still in love with her. He let his family ruin it for him. Why doesn't he just unblock her and speak to her?
Author IshaKaur011 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Posted January 7, 2018 Out of 3 yr relationship and with you 1/2 months later ✓ Because it didn’t work with her but he wanted it to ✓ Because he never wanted to break up but external circumstances ✓ Still checking for her on FB ✓ Weird behavior with the blocking ✓ Has tried using you to make her jealous ✓ Still speaks of her to his family 2 yr later ✓ Cropped you out of pictures for awhile ✓ Sneaking suspicion he’s tried using you to make her jealous ✓ You have seen each other for 7 weeks??? You're right :(:( His ex girlfriends Mum blocked him on Facebook, few weeks ago she unblocked him. He blocked her back. I don't understand, 1) How he found out? 2) He's still looking up her family on Facebook? 3) Why reciprocate? Why does he have her blocked on Facebook and Snapchat? Why doesn't he just speak to her since his family approve now?
Jdoublenn Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 He probably blocked her to get back at her and feel like he has the “upper hand”, it seems. He’s much too involved and worried about his ex and her family, and if you guys haven’t seen each other in 7 weeks, it’s best you just move on. 2
elaine567 Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 Why does he have her blocked on Facebook and Snapchat? Why doesn't he just speak to her since his family approve now? Why are his family now giving their approval to a girl he is not even dating? But as you have seen neither hide nor hair of him for 7 weeks, he may indeed be dating her again.
Author IshaKaur011 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Posted January 7, 2018 Why are his family now giving their approval to a girl he is not even dating? But as you have seen neither hide nor hair of him for 7 weeks, he may indeed be dating her again. Because of caste. He has her blocked though, eurgh!
elaine567 Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 Because of caste. He has her blocked though, eurgh! Sorry, pardon my ignorance but I thought caste was set in stone.
Jdoublenn Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 Because of caste. He has her blocked though, eurgh! Blocked on social media doesn’t mean they aren’t texting/calling. And just bc he told you he had her blocked doesn’t mean he still does. You haven’t seen him in almost 2 months. Sounds like it’s over with you two anyways... 1
Author IshaKaur011 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Posted January 7, 2018 Sorry, pardon my ignorance but I thought caste was set in stone. I agree, but Indian parents are very old fashioned unfortunately.
kendahke Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 Just over 2 years ago. 3 years. His family didn't approve of him being with her. Then he's not emotionally done with her. They didn't break up because of something between them--it was pressure and interference from his family. I'd stop investing in him---he's not done with her. Sorry.
FilterCoffee Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 You should leave him. What he’s doing is sooo not normal. He’s clearly not over her. 1
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