22shimmer22 Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 Hi guys, i just need some help figuring out how to move on from him, i need some honest advice, i need someone to tell me what is going on in his head.... Its been 3 years...everything started 3 years ago...26th april 2015, i met him online on this students website, he was a year older than me doing his A2 and i was doing AS, he was intelligent and he used to help me out in studies and stuff... i was 17 at the time, young immature and stupid, i never had a crush before and all my friends had relationships, i guess i was feeling alone which explains why he was shocked when i told him i liked him just after week of us texting, yes i admit i am stupid but i didnt know i was actually gonna love him from there, he had a huge ego, he never had a relationship either but he had a huge list of girls after him. I donno why he agreed to have a relationship. So we were together for 8 months....it didnt work out, he was always rude the next morning, he used to tell me he loved me but i think that was just fake....so he left, just like that, blocked me everywhere...it took time for me to heal.....i never stopped stalking him though.....so couple of days ago i emailed him wishing him a happy birthday, i used to do that for the past 2 years but he never replied, i was expecting the same thing this time except that he did, he gave me his number and told me to text him, i was surprised confused and i did, so we talked, talked about life changed, he is a 3rd year engineering student while im a first year medical student...i told him i didnt have any feelings for him now, and exactly when i said that he said my nickname..,i froze, just like that, i become jelly just like i used to 3 years ago...he told me he had a break up and that my revenge was over, i asked gim what he was talking about and he told me that u must have been praying that i get punished, i was no wth?! I wanted to tell him that somewhere deep down in my heart i love him but i just couldn't, i dont want him to hurt me, so today he texts me up saying his ex wants to meet and stuff, i encourage him as i know he still loves her and just uses me as he is lonely atm, if he gets back with her i will leave before he leaves.....guys tell me what's going on? Why is he like this with me? Is it because he knows i still love him even though i hide it...
Superchicken Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 Hi 22, Leave this guy alone. He is trouble. You will have nothing but misery in your life. He's up, down, sad, etc.. He's still too young to know what he (And YOU as well) wants. Your career MUST come first. Establish yourself in the medical field, then look at being serious with someone. He's come back to you, because your his "Soft landing" when he crashes with other girls. Don't fall for his BS charm. Its crapola soup his serving. You just came in second here, and your saying that you don't know what to do. But deep inside you know you cant be with him. Your smart enough to become a medical professional, so, use some of that intelligence to get rid of trouble. There's a world of great guys out there, but you seem to be reaching for the bottom of the pile.. Stand tall and reach for some one better. Ted. 4
Author 22shimmer22 Posted January 7, 2018 Author Posted January 7, 2018 Hi ted, Thank you for the amazing advice, im gonna start focusing on my lofe right now, the last thing i need is him in my life. Yup ur right im just being foolish thinking about him. Thanks a lot Shimmer Hi 22, Leave this guy alone. He is trouble. You will have nothing but misery in your life. He's up, down, sad, etc.. He's still too young to know what he (And YOU as well) wants. Your career MUST come first. Establish yourself in the medical field, then look at being serious with someone. He's come back to you, because your his "Soft landing" when he crashes with other girls. Don't fall for his BS charm. Its crapola soup his serving. You just came in second here, and your saying that you don't know what to do. But deep inside you know you cant be with him. Your smart enough to become a medical professional, so, use some of that intelligence to get rid of trouble. There's a world of great guys out there, but you seem to be reaching for the bottom of the pile.. Stand tall and reach for some one better. Ted.
Superchicken Posted January 8, 2018 Posted January 8, 2018 Great to hear your already in a good mood, and frame of mind. You could donate $50c, I need to buy some wax for my new Corvette.. Seriously though, keep that same mentality when he comes back to beg another chance.. Ted.
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