someonero Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 So basicly ive been suffering like a dog since the break up..i just starting feeling better and more optimistic and confident, started talking to old friends that i did removed from my life...started talking to some girls that made me feel better. Now i know this is just a phase but i try to keep positive. I know i wont forget a 6 year relationship first love for both of use me and her...i wont forget her she will be here all the time. But my point is i realized what i want, I realized i want my life back i dont need her in my life to move on. So yeah...here is what i did to slowly move on. 1. NO CONTACT and Low Contact for me , yes is hard...but i try my best every day. As for now i blocked her from everyware, removed every picture with her and me, removed the gift i had and no more stakling or asking friends about her. 2. ACCEPTANCE, i realized the more i fight it the worse it gets, so i started to accept the breakup, i told my self is over and i need to move one. I can, i will, il do it. 3. BEING ALONE, here i mean, i like to give my self time to suffer to get the emotions and feel them in a healty manner. What i do every day i allow my self to cry to feel sad to feel angry to feel depressed think of good memories with her for 10 minutes. After that i move on with the day and take care of the rest and keep a positive attitude. This helps with getting out the emotions: at least for me. 4. EXERCICE, yes is my actualy first time when i do this after 2 years...i know i know, is bad..but it really works and make me move on faster. 5. TAKE CARE OF YOU, i started to eat healty, slowly quitting smoking, i bought some new clothes made a new style and i feel more confident. I found a new job and im ready to move into another city. This is the first time after 6 years where i can think of my self and start loving my self. Well for me this is what helped for now, i know i still have a long run to go, but i try my best to move on. Yes i miss her, i love her but i dont want her back...and mabye this is the best thing that happent to me. Because i was an amazing adventure, i learned a lot from my mistakes and im not going to repeat any of it. This is how life is..if you dont get punched in your balls you never learn..and i kind thank her for this. Hope this helps guys. 3
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