madeincanada Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 hopeless for me to find my significant other?? Like I already don't have any real friends, I just want to find one person, so I can love and be loved. I'm so tired of being so damn lonely all the time. Like I'm an okay looking guy with a decent personality. When the opportunities arise I don't know if I'm afraid, not interested, or just blindfolded. Like I ask myself am I even interested in this person? Then at that moment my mind says no, but later on I begin to regret not doing anything.
Zippy2000 Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 Then you need to get out. Find a hobby. Join a Meetup. What have you been doing to meet people? 1
Author madeincanada Posted January 6, 2018 Author Posted January 6, 2018 hopeless for me to find my significant other?? Like I already don't have any real friends, I just want to find one person, so I can love and be loved. I'm so tired of being so damn lonely all the time. Like I'm an okay looking guy with a decent personality. When the opportunities arise I don't know if I'm afraid, not interested, or just blindfolded. Like I ask myself am I even interested in this person? Then at that moment my mind says no, but later on I begin to regret not doing anything. I just want to find a loyal woman who has my back...
Author madeincanada Posted January 6, 2018 Author Posted January 6, 2018 Then you need to get out. Find a hobby. Join a Meetup. What have you been doing to meet people? I don't know. I just go out. Like the grocery store, library, coffee shops, etc. Unnatural ways of meeting someone I know, but its how I prefer it.. What type of meetups do you attend?
d0nnivain Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 You can meet people anywhere. You need to be friendly & open. It's helps if you are social to begin with. I understand your desire to find that special someone but you may alleviate some of the loneliness if you make platonic friends to hang out with.
Zippy2000 Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 I don't know. I just go out. Like the grocery store, library, coffee shops, etc. Unnatural ways of meeting someone I know, but its how I prefer it.. What type of meetups do you attend? Ive been to the over 20 Meetups in 4 years. I ve met some nice people who have turned out to be long term friends. Although I havent met anyone through them. It helps you meet their friends and hopefully someone you like. The places you mention arent really place you would socialise or meet someone. Try a pub, or clubs depending how old you are. Have you tried internet dating?
mortensorchid Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 You might as well ask the meaning of life while you're at it. I would tell you the answer if I had it, but I don't have it. I would tell you the end all answer to every question that people ask on this forum or otherwise, but I don't have those answers and don't pretend to have them. That being said, be involved with your community, be happy with yourself, and give others chances.
Iseult Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 You might as well ask the meaning of life while you're at it. I would tell you the answer if I had it, but I don't have it. I would tell you the end all answer to every question that people ask on this forum or otherwise, but I don't have those answers and don't pretend to have them. Is there a script that would make this the default post to appear after every newly created thread, not only for this forum, but for the internet? 1
Iseult Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 (edited) I just want to find a loyal woman who has my back... Have you considered going to North Korea to meet one of those female agents who protect Kim Jong-un with their lives? You'd probably have to wait until the end of their service because I doubt Kim would allow them to date while on active duty lest they stop concentrating on their job. He's strict like that. EDIT: Nevermind. I just remembered those female agents are executed at the end of their service to protect state secrets. Sorry to have needlessly raised your hopes. Edited January 6, 2018 by Iseult misinformation
Chilli Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 How old are you ? The way you say when the opps arise sounds like you do meet people but then you do this and that instead, sounds like your blocking yourself. Chickening out in other words , telling yourself ahh, it doesn't matter and blah blah and walking away. Don;t worry if so , everyone chickens out sometimes. If it is though , you gotta go for it next time , no excuses .
Zippy2000 Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 Have you considered going to North Korea to meet one of those female agents who protect Kim Jong-un with their lives? You'd probably have to wait until the end of their service because I doubt Kim would allow them to date while on active duty lest they stop concentrating on their job. He's strict like that. EDIT: Nevermind. I just remembered those female agents are executed at the end of their service to protect state secrets. Sorry to have needlessly raised your hopes. Kim Jong Un likes to press all the right buttons........nuclear ones!
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