confused83 Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 I know it's the norm I suppose to say "let's remain friends" but we broke up on good terms. We spoke, she decided she didn't want to be with me but said she will miss me loads and wants to be friends still as can't imagine never seeing me again. I didn't shout or complain I just said if she didn't want to be with me I'll let her go, I couldn't of been any more decent. Anyway... 5 days after no contact she starts liking a few of my Instagram photos, so i text her to say have a good xmas (this was 23rd dec)... she read it then blocked me on everything without replying and her friend then messaged me on Facebook to say 'get over it leave her be'. I'd sent her 1 text?? and it litterally said 'I hope you have a good Xmas' to someone who supposedly said she hoped we'd remain friends and i only text as she liked my pictures . Now I know everyone will say why am I even bothered? but it does bother me. Someone I shared a million memories with seemingly decided 1 day to leave and never talk again... and to block me for that 1 text? I dont know why but I'm really struggling to get over it. I feel lonely, horrible and really struggling to just make myself happy again. I've not text her since and won't ever again but everyday feels horrible that she's just disappeared like this.
lolablue17 Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 I will translate that for you: When she broke up with you she expected you to be davastated. She thought you're gonna gry and beg her not to go. When you acted cool, she was very disappointed. She needed to feel power over your. Now after she seduced you with the "friends offer", and liked some Instagrams, she blocked you, with a clear intention to hurt her. To get more power + to have her little revenge, because you weren't weak on the break up proccess. 1
Author confused83 Posted January 5, 2018 Author Posted January 5, 2018 I will translate that for you: When she broke up with you she expected you to be davastated. She thought you're gonna gry and beg her not to go. When you acted cool, she was very disappointed. She needed to feel power over your. Now after she seduced you with the "friends offer", and liked some Instagrams, she blocked you, with a clear intention to hurt her. To get more power + to have her little revenge, because you weren't weak on the break up proccess. Hurt 'her' or me. As it seems to have just hurt me when in truth I didn't deserve to be hurt and didn't expect her to be that type.
lolablue17 Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 Hurt 'her' or me. As it seems to have just hurt me when in truth I didn't deserve to be hurt and didn't expect her to be that type. Sorry - misspelling - I meant "hurt you". 1
BC1980 Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 People do weird stuff after breakups. It's an emotionally charged time, and people change their minds. It does seem a little weird to get the friend to text you, but what can you do?
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