gonebibi Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 Has anyone had their girlfriend leave them for a lesbian? Happened to me, been living with my girlfriend for over 7 years. Never argued. And never broke up before. She had been getting friendly with this girl over the last 2+ months. Apparently, my girlfriend is bisexual, and never come out until now. Says she got bored of the relationship and that this new girl fills something she always felt was missing. She has apparently never been so happy. In the run up to the end, the relationship was full of lies on her end, and probably cheating, possibility not full on physical but emotional/sexting in person saying they wanted to do stuff with each other. Only a few weeks prior to her leaving she was telling friends how much she loved me, and how she wanted to marry me and wanted to have children. This for me at least, came out of no were I was not able to show her the love and affection that she craved, and obviously this affection from this other women has taken her by storm and she is madly in love with her. I don’t think she will be back, it’s been a little over a month – and now I don’t feel I would want her back after all she has done and said. I asked her to reconsider to begin with, and said I would change, this obviously did not work as she is so madly in love with this girl who is 7+ years younger We have barely spoke via text since, apart from her coming to get the rest of her stuff. When she picked up the last of her stuff the last thing she said was "love you" as she walked out the door??? Anyone else experience’s will be helpful
Author gonebibi Posted January 5, 2018 Author Posted January 5, 2018 Sorry to here. But you just move on. Thanks, I have moved on, just interested in if any one else has been in a similar situation. And if the girl ever regretted it and tried to come back? Like i said i am so deeply hurt and disgusted by her that i wouldn't take her back.
Author gonebibi Posted January 5, 2018 Author Posted January 5, 2018 (edited) Block everything and go dark. Zero contact I have not blocked her, but i have come off facebook completely, and cut off contact. Prior to this i got a strange email asking why i had blocked her, when all i had done at this point was remove her as a friend. I assume her new girlfriend had blocked me on her phone so i could not message her, not that i was anyway. So when she tried to message me it said she could not reply. Edited January 5, 2018 by gonebibi
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