AngryGromit Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 So I met this women, she's Smart, Sexy, we seem very compatible, she very passionate. but suddenly it seems like she's not as interested in talking on the phone or texting. Maybe I'm reading too much into this. We really only dated for a month, only 6 dates, but it seems longer, one date I took her to NYC to see the Christmas Tree, so it was an all day date. One thing I did notice was she changed some things she said about herself in later conversations. One example is I told her I prefer to sleep in the nude, and she said she likes to sleep with shorts and shirt. We had another conversation later, and she now says she prefers to sleep nude. I told her I like going to nude beaches, she said she never been to any, not sure if she could do that and now she tells me she always wanted to go topless in a pool. It seems like she's changing things about herself to be more what I like.
LilySun Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 I think that is definitely the what she's doing, by changing what she says. As for less communication on her part, many possibilities. Seeing other guys, or losing interest, busy life, it's hard to tell based only on the info we know. If you are wondering if she is still interested, ask her,or just ask her out again.
Iseult Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 OP, try this. Tell her you support ISIS and believe all white infidels should be destroyed. If she seems all up beat and wants to plan an attack with you, you'll know she's into you. Plus, that will account for her lack of interest in calling and texting since she obviously wants to keep a low profile. However, if she calls you a kook and threatens to report you to the police, you'll know she was just faking it all along. 1
emzara Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 My spidey senses always go up when someone changes their story to match mine. 1
Chilli Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 Haha , classic emza. But l dunno op, not much to go on there really l mean often a new partner just gets us thinking and we open up to other things with some after thinking later. That's all l'd call it for now. lf ya like her go with it , see how things go, no biggie.
rightondude Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 the constant texting and calling seems to wane after the infatuation stage. So what if she now wants to get naked more; that's a good thing right? 2
elaine567 Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 So I met this women, she's Smart, Sexy, we seem very compatible, she very passionate. but suddenly it seems like she's not as interested in talking on the phone or texting. Maybe I'm reading too much into this. We really only dated for a month, only 6 dates, but it seems longer, one date I took her to NYC to see the Christmas Tree, so it was an all day date. One thing I did notice was she changed some things she said about herself in later conversations. One example is I told her I prefer to sleep in the nude, and she said she likes to sleep with shorts and shirt. We had another conversation later, and she now says she prefers to sleep nude. I told her I like going to nude beaches, she said she never been to any, not sure if she could do that and now she tells me she always wanted to go topless in a pool. It seems like she's changing things about herself to be more what I like. Maybe not, maybe she is just more comfortable with telling you the truth. I sleep in t shirt and shorts sounds cute and innocent, I always sleep in the nude sounds more raunchy or may be even be seen as turn on and an invitation for sex, and that is maybe not the impression she wanted to give early on. Same with the nude beaches. Many women feel the need to be coy and cute, as they do not want to be judged by men at the start, in case they think of her as "easy"...
smackie9 Posted January 7, 2018 Posted January 7, 2018 (edited) Maybe she never thought to sleep in the nude so hearing it from you she tried it and likes it. So now this is something she has converted to. As for the nude beach conversation, same thing.....she had time to think about it, and maybe she always wondered what it would be like, it's a little risque but you never know. She sounds more curious than anything, and with the right time and place she might throw caution into the wind. Maybe with these conversations she's feeling a bit prudish and she's telling herself that it's time to let her hair down and try new things out of her comfort zone.......then she's had more time with it and now thinks she just can't do it. This type of stuff isn't really her cup of tea so she pulls back....second guessing herself. Edited January 7, 2018 by smackie9
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