d0nnivain Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 I think it's too soon to ask for the date to be inside at this point. It's like asking for sex. Normally that is true but in this case because they already had a respectful out of the house date planned & he's only asking about inside due to the frigid conditions, the ask reads more like I don't want to freeze, then let's warm each other up <wink> <wink> 1
BarbedFenceRider Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 At your house is too much too soon. You’re already moving way too fast for this babe. Watching TV/Netflix date is the type of thing you do after you’ve been married for thirty years and miserable. I would reschedule for next week. ROFL!!!!! And there it is... Seriously, BluesPower had a rule of something like it that went...3 dates and no sex/intimacy and he walked out...Something like that. If you are already making out by #2. In her place no doubt, she is into you. Netflix and chill could just be the ticket. But seriously, stay loose and just have fun.
Gaeta Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 Be a man. Bundle up and go out. I wish it was 0 here, we woke up with -34 and 100km/h winds, all of us are out there doing our things. 1
snowboy91 Posted January 5, 2018 Posted January 5, 2018 I live a public transit/Uber oriented area. The walk from the restaurant to comedy place is about 10 minutes. Is there anywhere you can eat that's closer? Or perhaps suggest an alternate going out activity that involves less (or no) walking? Then suggest that but leave plan A open. She might be one of those people who don't mind the cold... although 0 degrees (which I'm assuming is F) is pretty brutal if you're not used to it...
LivingWaterPlease Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 Same weather here, OP! A lot of us are staying in not only because of the cold but because of the way it affects us psychologically. I think this is even more pronounced when you're not used to weather this cold. Being in a warm home with a sofa to curl up on, possibly a fireplace, a refrigerator, hot drinks available easily, a warm bathroom if you need to go, etc etc. is more psychologically appealing to me in frigid weather than walking on a concrete sidewalk to a restaurant or club, even if it's a short walk, and having to sit upright in a chair, possibly use a cold bathroom or maybe have to wait in line, etc etc. There are lots of comforts any home offers over a restaurant or club and in this crazy weather I want to be where there's comfort and coziness! Has nothing to do with intending to have sex, for me. Not sure why it seems everyone believes if two people who are dating get together in a home sex is going to happen. We aren't rabbits, lol, we have brains to make choices with! So, yeah, offer both and leave the decision up to her. 1
ThisisIt606 Posted January 6, 2018 Posted January 6, 2018 We're all freezing on the east coast. Don't do the easy thing and be lazy. Keep the date as planned and bundle up. Take an uber/lyft to get you to the exact location. There shouldn't be much outdoor time anyways with those plans. you don't want to disappoint her so early on with that lame (in comparison) date idea. 2
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