Dumpers Post Breakup Emotions Roller Coaster - share your stories

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Background up shot:

Both people in their 20s, 2 Year relationship, partial forced dumper (me), broke up 1.5 months ago, 1st love for me, no contact for one week, I asked to reconcile through a letter, face2face, texts calls etc, response from her im confused, need time to work on myself, if we tried again I feel it would be fake etc etc.

 

***The above all very brief I know but I want to focus on the here and now rather than relationship itself for the purpose of this thread***.

 

I want to ask fellow LS people what their emotions have been like after a break up (please include a time frames if possible)....maybe dumpers vs dumpess will be different...but would be nice to hear your stories none the less.

 

So mine......have rallied from one extreme to the other i.e acceptance, inner happiness & only forward....then comes the crash and all i can think about is her, how I messed up, she could now be sharing her life with someone else etc etc. I am unable to cry anymore (just can't force the tears). One day is never the same.

 

My background info above i know is not detailed, but the idea of the thread is for people to share their stories if poss. Where you were, where you are now, in new relationships, did you got from top to bottom with a day etc etc....lets see how this goes.

 

Thank you