UberMan95 Posted January 4, 2018 Posted January 4, 2018 Hello Everyone, I'm new here and looking for a community of support and advice. A month ago my girlfriend of 3 years broke up with me. (Im 22 and she 21) She got drunk and cheated at a party, and I confessed I cheated a year ago too. (we didn't have sex with anyone just made out) We cried together and she left the next day. We didn't do no contact and we've seen each other every week since the break up. We went to the movies and a concert together. The other week we sat down and had a serious talk and she told me that she's bi. That she ignored concerns she had with our relationship and hurt me by keeping them secret. Thing we could have worked out but she ignored. We talked about us and she said us dating again is in the cards and a possibility down the road, but doesn't want to date anyone right now. She said like 60/40 we will date again. That she wants it to be good and better. The next day I asked her if that was true and she said she was genuine. She has divorced parents and she told me she is scared of committing to the wrong person and making the same mistakes her parents did. We're still best friends and talk dailybut how do I go about winning her love back or showing her what we had was genuine? Whats the best way of easing her fears?
HumanMachine Posted January 4, 2018 Posted January 4, 2018 Winning someone’s love? Doesn’t happen. She’s keeping you as a backup whilst she explores her sexuality/other people. You need to go NC and focus on yourself. 1
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