LightNecro Posted January 2, 2018 Posted January 2, 2018 Hey y'all, happy new year. I wanted to share a situation in which I think my ex girlfriend is trying to hurt me or make me jealous. I think she's going so far as to create a fake persona that she claims to be her boyfriend. I follow her on Instagram (haven't had time to go through followers) She always posts pictures of this guy and writes epitaphs about how great her new relationship is with this guy. Here's the deal about the pictures, she never shows their faces or he's always shown from behind. The images themselves look like they might be copied and pasted. And this is the best part. She posted her Christmas gifts (coffee machine and appliances for it) and said thanks babe! but the thing is I follow her sister and she posted a pic of my ex and her gifts with this caption "we know you bought a coffee machine for black friday and so we decided to get you appliances for it." I was in disbelief when I read this. She has gone so far as to not return my things that I have politely asked for, and posted a public love note to me (covered in another thread) which she professes how much she loves me, yet hasn't spoken a single word to me since I don't know when. At this point it's just whatever now, and I've moved on to focusing on my career, but I just want to know why she's playing these games with me. She wanted nothing to do with me anymore.
foxinabox Posted January 2, 2018 Posted January 2, 2018 It would be helpful if you had a screenshot of the Instagram posts. It definitely sounds fake, and she's doing it to make you jealous enough to chase her lol.
LilySun Posted January 2, 2018 Posted January 2, 2018 She definitely wants to you to be jealous. But she is going out of her way an awful lot to make it happen. She wants to get something out of it... Particularly, you. I'm guessing in her mind this will make you want her back? Was it you that ended things or her? It almost seems like some kind of revenge move, too. Is she type who is self conscious about being single? Could this be a way to fake a relationship because it looks better? (or so she thinks) just saying, maybe this whole thing isn't only for you.
Miss Spider Posted January 2, 2018 Posted January 2, 2018 (edited) just when I thought *I* had reached the highest level of cringe possible. Thank you. I died @ copy and pasted. Like mspaintshop? Edited January 2, 2018 by Cookiesandough
Author LightNecro Posted January 2, 2018 Author Posted January 2, 2018 Unfortunately i don't have any screen shots of the pictures. And I don't know if Ig would notify her if I took any. @ LilySun I agree it seems to be definitely taking a lot of energy and time although I don't see why she would bother anymore. She broke up with me. I made some mistakes in the relationship, but she was also at fault. I'm guessing it's a revenge type move too, although I am at the point of not caring. I've offered her peace and forgiveness but she has met those offers with complete silence. Maybe you're right about her self consciousness.
Author LightNecro Posted January 2, 2018 Author Posted January 2, 2018 just when I thought *I* had reached the highest level of cringe possible. Thank you. I died @ copy and pasted. Like mspaintshop? Like she found a picture on google haha and then blots out his face with IG features such as paint and emoticons. He honestly looks like he's Justin Bieber! Haha same haircut, tattoos on forearm, and one one of the posts where she shows his body, she writes introducing a CANADIAN to Asian food. Seems to fit the bill quite nicely.... 1
Arieswoman Posted January 2, 2018 Posted January 2, 2018 LightNecro, She's your ex so nothing she does is any concern of yours any more. STOP obsessing about what she's doing. Block and delete her from all social media. If she wants to play silly games, then that's on her. You are bigger than all this - aren't you?
HumanMachine Posted January 2, 2018 Posted January 2, 2018 You haven’t had time to go through your followers? What does that even mean? Just block her and move on. 1
mrs rubble Posted January 2, 2018 Posted January 2, 2018 Like she found a picture on google haha and then blots out his face with IG features such as paint and emoticons. He honestly looks like he's Justin Bieber! Haha same haircut, tattoos on forearm, and one one of the posts where she shows his body, she writes introducing a CANADIAN to Asian food. Seems to fit the bill quite nicely.... Hahahahaha!!! my ex husband did the same (except it was a female actress, not Justin Beiber) he took a photo of her on the tele and sent it to me via text claiming her to be her new girlfriend.....I laughed for weeks! So obvious it was a photo of his TV and the actress was pretty well known.
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