mmx7979 Posted December 31, 2017 Posted December 31, 2017 I got to know this girl while on vacation in LA. She was living in the same house as I. The first time I saw her, I immidiatley liked her a lot just by the way she moved and how she was smiling at me. She was there with an old friend visting the city. This friend was busy that day so I was able to invite her to do something together since I travelled alone. We were spending most of the day together on Santa Monica beach and I we got to know each other better. It was a lovely day but unfortunately the only day. All this happened in October. We stayed in touch for one more week with a few voice messages and that's it. Well, I never really forgot her and two days ago I decided to write her a message. She answered right away with another voice message stating that she was thinking about me too. We kept on sending voice messages all day long. I mentioned that I'm interested in her in my voice messages but she didn't mentioned anything about this topic in her messages. But mentioned that she really would like to have a boyfriend and that no guy seems to be interested. The problem is that we live in two different countries - I live in Oslo and she lives in Berlin but we both are German. Since its Christmas time I said that we should chat on the phone next week when we find some time. She has her own business which takes up a lot of her time. So now I wonder, is she "playing" hard to get or if she is not interested? I think since she answers on my messages immidiatley and tells me quite a lot how she feels inside that there might be some interest. What can I do? Distance for me is not a problem at all. She is 33 years and I'm 38 years.
Flame Aura Posted December 31, 2017 Posted December 31, 2017 Always pursue. Oslo to Berlin is really not that far, I've been in 2 LDR's, from Europe to South American and also North America! One thing though you need to take the lead in situations like these as you don't have the luxury of seeing each other regularly. Message her saying you had a great time when you met, and would like to meet up again. Say you were thinking of taking a trip back to Germany in the new year and if she was up for going for dinner/drinks/whatever. You will soon know whether she is interested from her response. Do it sooner rather than later - someone else might get there before you do.
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