SadHatter Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Hi guys, I feel so frustrated at the moment and wound up, I just have to type this or I literally feel like I am going to do something stupid like punch a hole in my door or pull my hair out and I never feel like this! I’ve been in a six-month relationship with a girl and this week my parents have gone away on holiday for the week so I asked this girl if she’d like to spend the week with me at my parents house. She agreed and I was really excited. She booked the four days off work (they’re away from today until Saturday) and everything was set. I have a university dissertation to be handed in on the 30th so I’ve been working like mad the last few weeks to get it finished now so that I wouldn’t have to worry about it when she came and we could spend as much time together as possible. Anyway, Saturday night we spoke and she was drunk and said that she felt things hadn’t been as good recently. I said that’s because I’ve been spending a lot of time doing my dissertation so that we can spend time together now. I can’t just throw my university out of the window – this dissertation is the last part of me completing my course! Anyway, I said I’d noticed we had drifted apart slightly recently but I put it down to the face of the dissertation and I still love her and it’ll be fine, especially after this week. She proceeded to go mad, shouting at me saying “Oh so you don’t love me then, you think we’re drifting apart? Well then you can f**k off!!” I was shocked, well slightly shocked – she always has a tendency to fly off the handle, something that has caused a lot of problems in our relationship. Anyway, she said to me yesterday – I’ll come around your house tomorrow (Tuesday) as mates and maybe for sex if I can be bothered!!! I said no we won’t have sex, you’re not using me like that!! She then proceeded to tell me how she went to an Ann Summers party on Sunday night and bought a Playboy rabbit outfit and some handcuffs etc. and she was going to enjoy using them with anyone else but me!! Last night she text me and said she might come round today etc. but couldn’t any other day this week as she now has plans to go out to parties Wednesday and Thursday night and I said well I will speak to you later because I am going out now with my mates down the pub, cya. Again, she went mad – who are you going with, where etc. There better not be girls there etc. etc. Anyway, today she text me saying I can f**k off for good and she doesn’t need me even for sex – she’ll get it from someone else - and she doesn’t ever want to talk to me or see me again and if I contact her she’ll get my number blocked! So now I am sitting here on my own on what was supposed to be a perfect week feeling really, really fed up, frustrated and hurt.
Neptune Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Well, at least it seems things are pretty clear on where she stands at the moment. It`s time to move on
celticguy Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Man, she sounds like a total headcase, Change all your passwords , take back anything you gave her and find someone that isn't fit for the loony bin/rehab
JPMorgan Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Change the title of this thread to "EX-gf...." and move on. Be glad you didn't have any more time invested in her! Review your dissertation, make sure it's perfect, and then RELAX! Go to some parties yourself (or have one) and get out and meet some new people. Sounds like you are better off without her. PS: I'm proud for you for sticking to your education and for knowing that it is most important right now! Cheers!
she_9325 Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 heck, you deserve better than that. she sounds like a major train-wreck.
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