olivetree Posted January 11, 2018 Posted January 11, 2018 hey guys so i'm back with a little update. so i ended up just picking up the phone and called her. opened with i thought you forgot about me jokingly. she laughed and said no blah blah. i mentioned how i know how i always joke about people getting run over by bikes and that i just saw someone a biker get hit blah blah. ask if shes still down to hang that sunday. she agreed a few days later after i called her i send her a pic of the snow storm here and said guess we might just have to play ping pong on your kitchen table. she replies an hour later with a video of the snow storm from her apt. I reply putting those pull up muscles to work! no reply. this is on thursday. she hits me up the night of saturday and asked meet up tmrw afternoon maybe at like 3? i text her back the next morning( day of) i thought that was the plan. she writes "yeaaaahh but let's meet at at 3 instead of 4 if that's cooo?" i said oh you just couldn't wait to see me. in that case we could meet up earlier or youre gonna have to wait till 330. she says im trying to go to sleep by like 9. so 4 it is(Original meet up time) we go on this date and like the first it went great for the both of us. there was a lot of chemistry i just felt not just out of disillusionment. pretty much couldn't take our eyes off each other. at the end of the date she said we should play ping pong all the time like soon. parted ways. no kiss yet just hug. maybe because i decided to smoke a cig last minute when we were parting ways lol. during the date she shows asks me if i want to see the girl shes going on a date with this weekend. then i end up making fun of her for being unoriginal in her messages with copy and paste and that i was done with her. she screams nooo hear me out! and our first date she also mentioned how the night before she was spending the whole night naked with another girl. FYI i'm a guy. she's bi. identifies as queer. so the date was cut short because she still had family staying with her and had to go home and eat dinner. when i got home i text her a pic of my cup noodle and said this is your fault. she replies right away saying i need more info... I reply did you not get the pic? she replies yes but how are those noodles my fault? also where are they from? I reply i found it sitting all lonely in the corner and because sundays i usually like to have a decent dinner. here i am stuck with cup noodles. she replies i think your dietary choices at this point are hardly my doing. this is all within like 30 mins. I don't reply. Didn't text her Monday. text her tuesday(yesterday afternoon) *her name/nickname i keep calling her* i know what i want do for our next date! She replies soon after ping pong!?!?! I reply that evening "noo It's already been agreed on that we're having regular ping pong practice until we do a doubles tourney." "now don't get too excited... but i remember you said you like comedy. so what's better? free comedy!" "link to event(for something that is today at night). you can thank me later *emoji*" then no response it's been over 24 hours. i know i'm writing these details pretty much in detail but i really don't know what the deal is. in person i feel a real connection and that she's really interested. but in texting it's really hard to tell. some times she'll reply right away. then other times days later. i mean i don't like playing games and would say i think i'm fairly upfront about my attraction for her. maybe she has some personal baggage or whatever her deal is. but at this point if she really didn't get run over on her bike i don't whole heatedly want to talk to her. it's pretty much a turn off. if you like someone you can give them a time of day to send a damn text. but i am attracted to her. what to do? guess just stop focusing on her and move on. and if she comes she comes. also since the beginning i've always been the one to initiate. she'll reply but never once initiated. I bolded the parts of your second update that you said or did that I would find really irritating. There were plenty of examples in your first post too. Your humour just comes off whiny, complaining and rude = annoying. When you tease a girl, make it nice - eg) "Your feet smell like roses" instead of "Your feet smell like poop" In addition to her lack of replies to you, the underlined part says she really isn't into you. Unless you're both polyamorous or have some sort of agreement, interested people don't tell you about their dates and concurrent sex with other people.
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