Pandasaurus12 Posted December 29, 2017 Posted December 29, 2017 I’ve gone on three awesome dates with a woman. Everything has been great so far, and we’ve discussed future dates. She went to visit family for the holidays, so I haven’t seen her in a while, which sucks but it’s to be expected this tim of the year. One thing I’ve noticed about her texting habits is that she never texts at all when she’s with friends. Since she’s been with her family she’s been very, very slow to respond. The last response I got from her was two days after I sent a message. Two days ago I asked her if she had any plans for New Year’s, and I haven’t heard from her yet. Does this sound avoidant?
staggerlee71 Posted December 29, 2017 Posted December 29, 2017 Does it feel avoidant? There are two things at play here. 1. She hasn't responded in two days 2. Specifically hasn't responded to a direct question regarding new years. I would say she is not jumping at the idea of either. Don't text her again and go have fun! don't give this girl to much credit 2
GemmaUK Posted December 29, 2017 Posted December 29, 2017 No, she is not being avoidant. She is behaving like a normal human being. She is respectful to her friends so doesn't text when she is with them, she is doing the same with her family. Doing these things also sets a good boundary for herself so she gets space to herself - you should be doing the same things too. You've been on less than a handful of dates. Don't be so needy and clingy, it' s Christmas, people get busy at this time of year with a totally different schedule. 3
smackie9 Posted December 29, 2017 Posted December 29, 2017 Ya she is avoiding you all right, because you keep texting her! She's hoping you will get the hint to back off and wait till she gets back from her holidays. 1
Author Pandasaurus12 Posted December 29, 2017 Author Posted December 29, 2017 Ya she is avoiding you all right, because you keep texting her! She's hoping you will get the hint to back off and wait till she gets back from her holidays. I mean I haven't been constantly texting her. I've sent her a total of 3 (or 4 depending on what you count) texts since she went on holiday vacation: 1. Pictures of a relative's dogs 2. Asking her how she liked a movie she saw (sent at the same time as above) 3. Wishing her a merry Christmas 4. Asking her her New Year's plans. She's responded to all but the last one. I don't think I've been flooding her with too much contact.
Chilli Posted December 29, 2017 Posted December 29, 2017 Maybe this is all the games bs people seem to talk about none stop these days , texting garbage. It's amazing isn't it , every post you read is he hasn't replied she hasn't replied he takes 2 hours she took two days and on and on. Then ya reading don't reply straight away don't be needy don't act desperate , in the sack 2hours after meeting haven't heard form him bla bla bla.. l think life was a lot less confusing with landline phones and no apps and internet, Anyway op , yeah l agree yeah it doesn't sound like she's all that keen sorry. Go with staggers, have some fun and let her be , never know she might fire up when she gets back. Good luck.
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