Behavior towards my ex girlfriend who cheated and lied, did I act good?

[DoodleBob]

So I'm 19 m and I was in a relationship with a cute girl, she's 17. After a month she dumps me over text. She was even planning for us to go to the gym together.

 

2 weeks later I found out out that she has cheated on me and got in a relationship with that guy (17).

 

I gave her a call so she would know that I know what she has done (in calm voice). Told her that she didn't have to lie and that we could just talk and it would be fine.

 

3 months later she is still in relationship with that guy.

 

I started working out in the gym on regular basis. She goes to the same gym. I know that, we were supposed to go there together. One day, while going to the changing rooms I notice her working out. She immediately notices me, looks at me 2-3 times and moves her look away. I did look at her too, but there was no communication.

 

A week later, after the lifting session, I'm going with my personal trainer to do some crunches and stretching. It's her, 5 m away (like 15 feet). I immediately striked a funny conversation with my trainer. Didn't give her even a look. Passed by her a few times, didn't even say hello to her. Feeling so proud of myself, not giving a **** about someone who betrayed my trust.

 

I didn't post sad or depressing stuff on instagram, just me being happy and enjoying life.

 

Did I act good? How should I behave further on? Should I send her a Happy New Year text?

 

Should I put some quote in my instagram story that would tingle her mind?

 

Also: I lost 8 Kg (17,6 pounds) since we broke up and I do look better. She must have noticed that (all my college colleagues noticed the positive change in my appearance though).

[badfella]

You did well. F**k her she had her chance. Don't waste time even thinking about her. There are loads of females out there and a better one will be along when you are not expecting it. Then she will suddenly want to know you but you will be having too much fun to bother even noticing.

[DoodleBob]

You did well. F**k her she had her chance. Don't waste time even thinking about her. There are loads of females out there and a better one will be along when you are not expecting it. Then she will suddenly want to know you but you will be having too much fun to bother even noticing.

 

Thank you for your reply! I was the better person, becoming even better and stepping out of this pile of c*ap clean. It is her guilt and her immaturity, not mine.

[Been]

People that betray your trust deserve NOTHING from you- no text no hi not anything.

[badfella]

Thank you for your reply! I was the better person, becoming even better and stepping out of this pile of c*ap clean. It is her guilt and her immaturity, not mine.

 

This thread is resolved fella