hgriffin17 Posted December 26, 2017 Posted December 26, 2017 This story is pretty messed up So I went on two dates with this girl I met on tinder. We had sex already. Things were progressing fine. We went on winter break so I decided to back off. Didnt contact her for about 10 days. Wished her a merry christmas. She replied with enthusiasm. Then asked to call her, to catch up, haven't heard from her since. Thought her behavior was strange. She always responds in a timely manner. I got curious and went to see her facebook profile. Saw that one of her friends on facebook had his profile picture of them two with the caption "I love you babe". Fireworks start flying. So I went to her tinder profile. Saw that she connected her profile with instagram. Saw a picture of them at a marathon about 3 weeks ago. Realized we went on a date 4 weeks ago. So now i'm very confused. The story leads to her cheating on me. But I don't know how to go about it. It sucks because I really did like this girl. I don't have sex left and right, I don't just give it up to anybody. To me it's sacred and I had a gut feeling she was someone trustworthy. But ey, sometimes your wrong. So, how would you go about handling this?
Flame Aura Posted December 26, 2017 Posted December 26, 2017 Cheating on you? What gives you that idea? You went on 2 dates that's it. You weren't officially together were you? She prob met someone else on Tinder, same way as with you, and jumped into bed with him, same way as with you. Can't really blame her. Next time if you only want something serious and sacred then tell them at the start. 3
Author hgriffin17 Posted December 26, 2017 Author Posted December 26, 2017 Sorry I meant to write, cheating on the other guy with me. I never thought I was in a relationship with her, but they sure as hell seem to be together.
HiCrunchy Posted December 26, 2017 Posted December 26, 2017 Sorry I meant to write, cheating on the other guy with me. I never thought I was in a relationship with her, but they sure as hell seem to be together. From what you described that is quite possibly the case. 1
Author hgriffin17 Posted December 26, 2017 Author Posted December 26, 2017 So what's my next move? 1. Move on but let her continue cheating 2. Confront her, and try to find an explanation out of this 3. Tell the other guy A lot is at stake here. It could all be a misunderstanding but i'm presuming no. I'll take whatever advice you may want to give. But i'll only sit on this for one more day before acting.
Author hgriffin17 Posted December 26, 2017 Author Posted December 26, 2017 Cheating on you? What gives you that idea? You went on 2 dates that's it. You weren't officially together were you? She prob met someone else on Tinder, same way as with you, and jumped into bed with him, same way as with you. Can't really blame her. Next time if you only want something serious and sacred then tell them at the start. You are right though. I should tell them my intentions from the start. Considering i've been the homewrecker (without even knowing) 3 times now, I should probably sharpen my taste in women.
rushed Posted December 26, 2017 Posted December 26, 2017 I would just ask her about. Tell her you saw her friend's FB profile pic that had her in it with that caption and ask her who he is. Maybe she's in an open relationship. Maybe she did cheat on him with you. You'll never know until you ask. 2
Author hgriffin17 Posted December 27, 2017 Author Posted December 27, 2017 I would just ask her about. Tell her you saw her friend's FB profile pic that had her in it with that caption and ask her who he is. Maybe she's in an open relationship. Maybe she did cheat on him with you. You'll never know until you ask. I will most likely ask, just as you suggest. I have a theory though. I believe she's in a long distance relationship with him. Though they met in thailand, he now resides in florida. I've been in an LDR before, so I know the cravings for physical intamacy. Considering i'm a non-clingy guy who isn't a complete dumbass when it comes to dating, I was able to give her what she wanted. Sex. That's why we had it on our first date and second and that's why she leaves right when we are done. Sadly, I wanted something more wholesome while she was just looking for a goodtime...not a long time. But again, there's no way to know until I ask. And that's what i'll do.
Jon5150 Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 She's probably in limbo with her ex. I would call her oit..either way..if you want something serious with this girl..it's not going to end well. 1
Author hgriffin17 Posted December 27, 2017 Author Posted December 27, 2017 She's probably in limbo with her ex. I would call her oit..either way..if you want something serious with this girl..it's not going to end well. I wish you were wrong but sadly you aren't
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