heartbrokenlady Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 Long email from my ex tonight. Blaming himself. Telling me he's miserable. NOT because of me, mind you. Because he's lonely and hates Christmas. I emailed him back and told him that he is setting back my progress everytime he gets in touch and that it was selfish of him, when he doesn't want to be with me.
badfella Posted December 27, 2017 Posted December 27, 2017 This thread is awful. I understand all your pain, and i understand its really crap but for heavens sake ALL of you are you. You have been on your own before. You came into the world alone and you will face the other side alone one day. You are worth more than this. Life is for living. Take up something you really enjoy, buy a fast car, learn guitar, get a sleeve tattoo. Do all three if you want! You are lucky. I will level with you. My heart was ripped out about 10 years ago. I lost my house, all my money. Had nothing. The only reason i didn't blow my brains out where my son and the fact i don't want to die. Know what? It's the best thing that ever happened too me. I got hard, i will never be in that position again. Sure, i was once a good and morale man but now i am a charmer, a player, a dog. I have fun, i know the high cost of the life i lead. I choose the rules now. Use it, and get strength you never knew you had. There are loads of new lovers out there (even for an old dog like me).
AT575 Posted December 28, 2017 Posted December 28, 2017 I have been no contact for three weeks. I have days where I need to tell myself to put one foot in front of the other and other days where I can pull it together to get through the day and distract myself. I’ve been no contact as in no social media checking, no texting. Nothing. I got through Christmas until today, Dec. 27th. I caved. I called and I left a voicemail saying hey can we talk? Hope you had a great Christmas. I am now regretting it big time. Don’t make contact. Just don’t do it. You will feel worse. Trust me
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