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Ran into ex after 2 yrs.

tlour61

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That was a very awkward feeling running into him today after the bad breakup. I had caught him cheating after we got back together. Yes she was at the party today. I was nice and returned the hello and he was saying something else. I was already moving away since I really didn't want any other exchange. I just started talking to other people in another room. I had to move my car to let someone out. Got to my car and again he tries to talk asking me how I was doing. My life has been going well and I have been happy. Started seeing a nice guy. I've moved on. Which took some time but I do find myself in a better place in life. So my answer to his question was I have no interest in talking to you. Which he was a bit shock. I went and moved the car. He left with her and I went back in the house. The funny thing is I kinda of shock myself in saying that. I guess I just wanted to make sure that door stayed closed.

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Akashsingh Established Member

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That was a very awkward feeling running into him today after the bad breakup. I had caught him cheating after we got back together. Yes she was at the party today. I was nice and returned the hello and he was saying something else. I was already moving away since I really didn't want any other exchange. I just started talking to other people in another room. I had to move my car to let someone out. Got to my car and again he tries to talk asking me how I was doing. My life has been going well and I have been happy. Started seeing a nice guy. I've moved on. Which took some time but I do find myself in a better place in life. So my answer to his question was I have no interest in talking to you. Which he was a bit shock. I went and moved the car. He left with her and I went back in the house. The funny thing is I kinda of shock myself in saying that. I guess I just wanted to make sure that door stayed closed.

 

You have to let go of the anger and negative emotions. Keep the door closed but dont slam it. Allow the other person a chance to apologize.

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You have to let go of the anger and negative emotions. Keep the door closed but dont slam it. Allow the other person a chance to apologize.

 

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I didn't read any anger or negative emotion in her post. And nowhere was there any indication that he was trying to apologize.

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You have to let go of the anger and negative emotions. Keep the door closed but dont slam it. Allow the other person a chance to apologize.

 

She doesn’t need to allow anyone to do anything. If he feels guilty then that is his cross to bear. If she wants to keep that door closed she can close it anyway she feels fit

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d0nnivain Established Member

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You survived. Congratulations. You drew the boundaries you wanted & you stuck to them.

 

Hold your head High & don't look back.

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