Drivetildriven Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 I've had maybe five correspondences with my ex GF in the three months since we've been broke up. She always ends them with this bull shi t line. "I wish you the best of luck, and I keep you in my every prayer. There will always be great love in my heart for you." So what the hell does that mean? What am I supposed to take from that?? I swear if hear how she'll "always have great love in her heart" one more time, I'm gonna tell her off for good.
sundrop Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Who did the breaking up? If she was the dumper it would tick me off too. If you were the bumper, she's just trying to make you feel guilty.
Author Drivetildriven Posted August 23, 2005 Author Posted August 23, 2005 Yes, she broke up with me. She knows I still love her more than anything, and I don't hate her; YET! I really don't understand her motive. She needs to cut this sweet, sugary, pitty crap out. It just makes me angry.
ECVegas Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 Drive: That's woman code for "I still care about you, but I'm no longer in love with you". Don't shoot the messenger, but it's obvious with 5 calls in 3 months that she has moved on. Yet, you are still thinking about her. Damn straight she knws you still love her. If your the one calling her, then what do you expect her to say? If she's calling you, then she just wants to keep you around "just in case" she wants you back again. But that's it...she's in control. Remember, women want what they can't have. If you get emotional over what a woman says, she knows she has you. If you take a "i don't really care attitude', she won't. Your kidding yourself by saying you'd "tell her off". At this point, sounds like you still love her deep down inside. Right now, she doesn't feel the same way. you may not gain her love back, but you need to gain her respect. by moving on, she will respect you more than anyhtning else. give her the impression that you are no longer "available at will". only when a woman realizes she can't have you when she wants...will she miss you... good luck
Author Drivetildriven Posted August 24, 2005 Author Posted August 24, 2005 All of the communication has been through emails and she has been the one to write them. I've only responded to three. But I guess that's three too many. You're right though, she does have all the power. Maybe when i'm happy without her and with someone else, she'll get her head out of her ass. Thanks for the replies.
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