Wolfie24 Posted December 24, 2017 Posted December 24, 2017 We been working together for 3 to four months and his friend told me all about him so I told the guy I like i had a crush on him and I wanted to get to know him and see where it goes. He told me Idk man we’ll have to see. I try to not to think of people I work with like that but we’ll see. I don't know how to take it but when I asked his friend he told me Think of co worker like but we will see there's a light and Okay he just said he like to keep work just work. I mean hes mean to everyone else but me and his friend. He has been single a long time and didnt really look for relationship and he been working on his life and hes a good guy from what i seen and heard. He always smiles and jokes with me. Im so confused and need advice. So what is he saying?
GemmaUK Posted December 24, 2017 Posted December 24, 2017 He is letting you down easy by saying he basically doesn't date people he works with. He either actually doesn't ever date people he works with (which is a good boundary to have) or he isn't interested in you in a romantic way, just as a friend. Single people are also not always looking to date. I'm not sure why you would be interested in someone who is mean to everyone else either - that should be a big red flag. It tells a lot about a person. You should move on and find another crush - preferably outside of work.
Kevinehv Posted December 24, 2017 Posted December 24, 2017 Maybe a little bit weird to reply to this since I'm going through something similar but I will anyway. It could be he is professional and doesn't want to date people at work. I don't know what kind of work you do but if it's a temp job I think he's just not that interested in you or in dating. A man who jokes with you is a good sign though but try to see if it are just jokes or if he's flirting. If he is being flirty you could try to get his attention in the future but don't tell him you've got a crush on him or he will feel it's too easy.
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