jimeny Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Im a wreck. Ive recently broken up with my girlfriend who ive been with for 7 months because we are moving on in life, starting university and everything and wont be around each other anymore. Ive completly fallen in love with this girl but she feels that she cant have this now as she would prefer to end us, so that she and I are able go to university free and single so that we can enjoy ourselves without the worry or concerns of holding each other back, so it was kind of a mutual agreement, but both knowing we didnt want to do it also. I was preparing myself for the worst around this time but never knew i would be hit so bad. In one way it comforts me to know that we didnt break up cause we didnt like each other no longer or that we had big problems, just the time and situation. But then knowing if things were different and we were around each other it would be different gets to me. We want to remain friends, but i know this is probably one the worst ideas, but we have known and been friends for at least 9/10 years and we thought it would be a massive lose if we lost all contact with each other. I just dont know how to coupe. Im a person that never gets emotional about much but this has just worn me away to nothing cause i miss her soooooo much. But i know at the moment she is off doing stuff she loves to do, always on the go doing things, whereas im waiting to start university and dont have alot to do, which hurts cause i know she is enjoying herself and is already probably getting over me already and finding lots of attention of new guys. I just need help, what can you recommend to do, ive tried doing many things, sticking with friends going out as much possible and keeping my self occupied with playing my guitar and concentrating on other intrests...
sundrop Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Jimeny, It sound like you are doing all he right things to keep you busy. The bad thing, is when you care for someone there is no fast fix. It just takes time. You will fell all sorts of emotions for a while, mad, sad, lost. Sorry to say my loveshack friend. It only takes time to start feeling better.
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