Beachgrl486 Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Do you guys think there is a chance your ex can pop into your life sometime even like a year or so down the road...Is it ever to long or is it when you least expect it? Is it common? Is there such thing as too long? I am just curious...My ex is a very stubborn man. We have been broken up 10 months now. We have seen eachother a few times here and there. When we see eachother there is some harmless flirting that goes on. I have dated others and so has he is this time but something there is just that feeling that it is not over. Sometimes I am glad we arent together and then sometimes I miss him a lot. There seems to be no guy to feel his shoes. I had comfort with him and could never get enough. Ever guy since I wish was him..I know that sounds horrible. The worst is over with us but I do still miss him. I am in college and he has graduated. He is a older than me but it never seemed to matter. Maybe someone is in this same position or has been. Some input would be great.
queenie01 Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Thats a great question, i am wondering the same thing myself. Odds are the answer is no, that its never too much time. Whats meant to be will be i suppose. Its been 4 months since my ex broke up with me and he resurfaces about every 3 weeks or so via email. It sucks because why cant they just leave well enough alone. I still love him and really do feel if we ever did get back together our relationship would be stronger than ever because we have been apart and can truly appreciate each other. I really dont know that there is any set time, some people say the dumpers have regret after 6 months or so and some never have regret.
Author Beachgrl486 Posted August 22, 2005 Author Posted August 22, 2005 I know what you mean. My ex and I were in love. We are both soo stubborn though. I dont call him he doesnt call me. We will pass on the road or something and pull over and talk for a few and reminisce on old time... I swear he does that on purpose to make me thing about him more. I do miss him. But it is better. I think if we did ever get back together it would be better. I just dont know if we will...He has too much pride. I dont know though. I think that kind of stuff happens when you least expect it. He called him at work like 3 weeks ago and we talked for a few...then a few days later passed him on the road and we pulled over at this park and sat there about an hour or so we held hands for a few and just strolled along like old time. He is seeing someone and so am I but when we were there it didnt seem like it. We were in our own world, atleast I thought we were. Havent talked since then though. He passes by my house sometimes because he friend lives near me which I find odd and I saw him the other day while I was on the porch and we just waved. I dont know. I am just curious to hear some stories...Has anyone had a guy who is really stubborn or a situation happen like this...if so what was the outcome?
alphamale Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 if both of you cannot find anyone better then you may reconcile. i dont' think there is any time limit.
queenie01 Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 I have heard the more you stay out of site the more it makes them wonder, in my case its sort of worked. He usually resurfaces after a couple weeks of no contact? Let me ask you guys this? If you were dating someone new and you were happy, would you email you ex to see how she is doing and if she is dating anybody?
LuvBite Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 You'll find once you really (genuinely) start getting over him and he see's the change in you he will most likely crawl back to you but by then it will never be the same as it was in the begining. The fact that he's older means he's probably playing games with you especially if he's flirting with you - you should get over him and work on your confidence because thats what usually takes the hardest knocks. LB
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