DacaInaru Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 ok.. well i'm trying not to be ticked here but i can't help it.. I've come to the conculsion that its me.. was talking to this guy online.. possibly trying to meet to go out for a date.. we've been talking for a while.. and yes I did go into the i'm not looking for casual sex discussion i'm looking for friends first and see what might happened from there.. I want a real relationship.. we are chatting on cam one day and he tries to show me his privates.. I turn the cam off.. told him that i'm not into that sort of thing.. well.. we had a discussion about why i'm not into that sort of thing and that I want to take things slowly and get to know the person before I get intamate with them... so today. i'm home babysitting my daughter and dad cause my mom is away for two weeks.. he know i'm home with my daughter and says oh I took a picture of me do you want to see it.. I said sure.. well its a picture of his freaken Winnie.. and I get furious.. I have never been sooooooo insulted and felt so disprespected in my life.. the least he could have done is warned me knowing that my child is in the house.. so I go off on him.. and he tells me that cause he likes me he thinks that I should see him.. yada yada yada.. and that i'm over reacting that i'm an adult and should be fine with his nudity and mines.. what the F'.. I mean do I look like whore?? do I look like some hoe.. or did he not understand my feelings? I'm floored at the guys that i've been meeting during these last two months of dating both people online and off line.. I'm starting to think its me.. that maybe I look like a slut?? hell.. i'm 180lbs and look like a freaken defalated balloon.. what the heck.. I don't get it.. what is it about me that i'm attracting idiots who want sex.. and young guys who are looking for sex.. I don't understand.. I'm just floor.. completely disappointed and starting to think.. maybe i'm just better off alone.. sigh.. this sucks..
Neptune Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 There is something to be said for the single life. Just stay away from meeting men online. Outside of church groups or particular interests, like ballroom dancing or whatever, just be patient. The theory is that if you don`t get caught up in the crap then you will eventually butt head long into something good without even trying.
curiousnycgirl Posted August 23, 2005 Posted August 23, 2005 The old adage that you need to kiss a lot of frogs to meet your prince is totally valid. It is an unfortunate reality that there are a lot of jerks out there. I don't see anything wrong with meeting online (it's how I met my b/f of over a year) - but you need to be very careful - which it sounds like you have. Unfortunately you cannot control their behaviour - I say chalk it up to experience - you didn't waste 2 months - you spent 2 months finding out he's a jerk who you will now write out of your life. Similiar things can happen when you meet anywhere else too - althought online folks seem to relax the rules a bit too much for my liking. Don't take it to heart - keep plugging away - you'll meet a good one (or 10) at some point. Just keep doing what you're doing and BE CAREFUL!
flowergirl Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Girl, it ain't you at all, believe me!!! Although I completely understand how you feel. A lot of these youing guys have a single-track mind, and luckily, they're fairly easy to weed out, but damn, I bet years from now, you'll tell that story and laugh a little, crazy perv, thank God your daughter didn't see that!!
Art_Critic Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Hey DacaInaru I took a picture of me today .. do you want to see it ?? It always amazes me that people ( men ) will send pics of mr happy to someone they don't even know. Something tells me that he would've never met with you .. You were just an internet thing and he would never let it get to a face to face .. Creeps
Author DacaInaru Posted August 24, 2005 Author Posted August 24, 2005 LOL.. do you know what.. he just IM' wanted to see if he could meet me in person.. then when I said no.. went into the well I guess you don't like me anymore.. CREEP is an understatement lol
brewgirl25 Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Hey, I think I know that guy! I got the same exact MO. We talked for a while, then suddenly he sent me an extremely dirty e-mail. When I didn't respond, he backed off for a bit and then a few months later we started talking again and I explained why I hadn't been in touch. He said he understood and then he sent me half naked photos! He just couldn't understand that I wanted to meet him in real life before I would share that kind of thing with him... But there is hope! I had pretty much given up on my search - closed down my match, lavalife, etc...and was going to stop trying when I met the love of my life. So it can still happen, but I definitely went through a lot of frogs before I found my prince!
Merin Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru he just IM' wanted to see if he could meet me in person.. then when I said no.. went into the well I guess you don't like me anymore.. LOL Well I guess you could've said "While it may be true that I don't like you anymore, I can say with 100% certainty I like you a lot LESS now and after looking at the photo you sent, there isn't any way you would've measured up *ahem* to what I want" Sorry for your crappy experience....
Author DacaInaru Posted August 24, 2005 Author Posted August 24, 2005 oh..lol.. this just gets better.. I'm logged on now chatting with him.. I said.. I doubt you'll drive 4 hours to meet me knowing there will be no sex.. get this..lol.. he says.. your right.. but you have a car you can come here.. wtf?? LOL.. goodness.. he's just getting stupider by the minute.. is that even a word?? LOLOL..
Merin Posted August 24, 2005 Posted August 24, 2005 Originally posted by DacaInaru oh..lol.. this just gets better.. I'm logged on now chatting with him.. I said.. I doubt you'll drive 4 hours to meet me knowing there will be no sex.. get this..lol.. he says.. your right.. but you have a car you can come here.. wtf?? LOL.. goodness.. he's just getting stupider by the minute.. is that even a word?? LOLOL.. LOL What a chump!
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