sundrop Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 Ok, I broke up with my boyfriend of three years because we are on different paths. He wouldn't return any of my hones calls or he would respond with a text message, I know he is doing this to try to get under my skin. My dog had died and he bought my other dog two dog toys on two different occasions and dropped them off at my house or sent me a text message saying if I was working in the area to swing by his house and he would leave them in his car port and for me to pick it up. WE have been broken up for a little over a month...... Now heres my story. Friday night I get a call around 11:30pm, I didn't recognize the # so I didn't answer. I checked my message and my ex's best friends wife, who they just divorced Friday, leaves me a messaging saying she thinks Bob is suicidal and for me to please call tell my ex to call Bob. So I call my ex and leave him a message to please call Bob, his ex wife thinks he is suicidal. So I call Bobs ex-wife back and tell her me and my ex are no longer together and but I did leave him a message to please call Bob... About that time my phone beeps I answer it and it's Bob, he talks to me for an hour and a half about his and his wife's breakup........ ( Now I have only met Bob and his wife twice, once for a few hours and then over New Years weekend, they live half way across the state)..... So I finally get off the phone with Bob and I get a text from my ex... It says "I don't ant you talking to Bob's Wife and he didn't want us getting in the middle of things'..... Now I really don't like Bobs wife as a person, so I don't care if I talk to her to her ot not..... I replied back"excuse me I havent talked to her." Which I really haven't. My ex then calls me and he said well Bob said you were talking to her when he called you. I said that yes I was but I only told her that I had left him a message to call Bob..... Anyway, he said he didn't want me to be in the middle that Bobs wife was only stirring up trouble.... Ad I said well if you wouldn't have given Bob my number than I wouldn't have been put in the middle, all my ex had to do was send me a text message, saying Bob was fine, and his wife was just stirring up trouble or call me a tell me that and the issue would have been dropped within two minutes, but no It's now three hours later, pushing 3 in the morning, I think he knows I am ticked off at him right now, because I was mad he put me in the middle. Then he ends up trying to be nice asking if my dog likes his dog toys etc...... How do I handle him? I am also trying the NC thing, but It seems like every two weeks something comes up. I couldn't not respond to a possible suicide scare.. Is he just tying to pick a fight?
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