IntrovertedBxtch Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 I'm a 27 year old female and I've been with my boyfriend (25) for over a year. I have no problem being faithful and I have never cheated in any of my relationships but is it weird that I can't bring myself to think about other men sexually? Whenever I get horny my boyfriend is the only man I fantasize about. We have a great sex life and no man has ever turned me on as much as he does. I dont even check out other men. Is this normal or odd?
alphamale Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 Is this normal or odd? i'm guessing that for a woman it's fairly normal 1
todreaminblue Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 in my opinion its the best way to be....deb 1
caveman621 Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 If you've found that at 27, way to go!!!!!!!!!!! I was married for 25 years. But would check out other women and fantasize about other women and have "impure thoughts:rolleyes:" about other women. I always figured this was what EVERY man did and, talking with friends, it is. Now with new GF after divorce and the sex is so stellar and I love her so much, I'm where you are with your BF. All I think about is her. No fantasies about other women at all. So if it's weird, then we're weird! YAY! 1
stillafool Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 It's normal and preferable. Why do you think it's weird? 2
Gr8fuln2020 Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 When I was with my ex-wife, I rarely thought of other women, if at all. My ex was/is HOT! She also told me that she only thought of me, so, sure, when you're in love or whatever, it is not 'weird' at all. 1
SolG Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 I'm bi and non-monogamous. I fantasize about others all the time! But kind of non specifically. I'm more prone to flirting with the hot guy at the servo, then taking that on a flight of fancy in my mind with a fantasy facsimile of a (vs the) hot sevrvo guy to chandelier swinging land and beyond. And then my partners will invariably pop up there too and take over the leading roles! I don't think you're weird. Regardless of persuasion, I think it's wonderful to fantasize about those you love and desire. To the exclusion of all others or otherwise. Just enjoy.
Sara1989 Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 When I was happy with my ex I never thought about anyone else yet when that relationship went downhill...damn all my fantasies about other people came straight back. So pretty normal.
Flame Aura Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 Why does this sound like a troll? It would be weird if you were fantasizing about someone other than your boyfriend. 1
mortensorchid Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 When I was with someone and we were happy together, then no I would not think about other men. I think that's normal for a woman to not think of another except for her bf. I'd be more surprised to find out if she was thinking of other men when she had a bf. 2
todreaminblue Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 when i was with my ex for fifteen years i had eyes only for him...when we split i couldnt even imagine being with anyone else let alone fantasizing.....but....aftr quite a few years i did develop an attraction for another guy ...dont know why him...never dated him or even knew him all that well......and none of the guys i actually dated..i felt no pull towards them ....i tried though one time for six months to feel it....it just made me sad and i felt used.............but then ...im not easily attracted to guys.... i normally date guys i am friends with and have known a while and who understand me a bit.... where attraction grows slowly... so thats why i think what you feel towards your bf is the norm..deb....
heavenonearth Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 I do not think it's weird at all. I have the same thing with my boyfriend. Ever since our first date, actually. I have never been so sexually attracted to ANYONE in my life. In my past relationships, I would often fantasize about other people than my partner. But with my boyfriend now, I think I finally found the perfect guy for me. For him, it is the same. If you are truly in love, what you are experiencing is completely normal, I think! 1
jjgitties Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 I'm a 27 year old female and I've been with my boyfriend (25) for over a year. I have no problem being faithful and I have never cheated in any of my relationships but is it weird that I can't bring myself to think about other men sexually? Whenever I get horny my boyfriend is the only man I fantasize about. We have a great sex life and no man has ever turned me on as much as he does. I dont even check out other men. Is this normal or odd? Nope. Its not weird. Its just the way your brain is wired. Look at me. I am miserable in my marriage but he only woman that turns me on is my wife that makes me miserable. Go figure. Makes no sense. The only woman I fantasize about sexually are my wife and maybe Raquel Welch circa 1960s. (Maybe Janet Leigh a little bit as well -- it's that god damn B&W bra scene in Psycho.. :-) ). https://sgtr.files.wordpress.com/2013/07/bra1.gif
hippychick3 Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 I was married for a very long time to someone with whom I never felt a spark or true physical attraction. I constantly fantasized about other men (never acted on it though). I am now totally in love and still feel that spark after 4 1/2 years with my current bf and never ever fantasize about other men.
Ruby Slippers Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 As the scripture says, he who is cheating with his eyes and mind is cheating in his heart. I've always viewed it that way, so could never fantasize about someone else in good conscience while in a loving relationship. But with time I've figured out how much of an anomaly I am! 1
Imajerk17 Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 (edited) You have eyes only for your boyfriend and you think that's a problem? Talk about looking hard for issues in your relationship indeed! Edited December 20, 2017 by Imajerk17
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