greekfreak Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 So there is this girl that I met a few weeks ago at a party and I thought was really attractive. She happens to be roommates with my best friends girlfriend so she came over to my friends place one night. That night she talked to me for two hours straight we played beer pong and she was hugging me after every time one of us made one. I didn’t think anything of I️t but the the next week I saw her again and we talked for about 4 hours straight and she invited me to sleep in her bed. Nothing happened but we did end of going on a date two days later. Everything went well and she said she had a good time so I decided I would try to keep up with her over winter break. So I️ snapchatted her two days later and she didn’t respond. Am I wrong for thinking that based off of the times we have met that she is interested in me or am I️ just reading too far into how she acted around me?
Jdoublenn Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 So there is this girl that I met a few weeks ago at a party and I thought was really attractive. She happens to be roommates with my best friends girlfriend so she came over to my friends place one night. That night she talked to me for two hours straight we played beer pong and she was hugging me after every time one of us made one. I didn’t think anything of I️t but the the next week I saw her again and we talked for about 4 hours straight and she invited me to sleep in her bed. Nothing happened but we did end of going on a date two days later. Everything went well and she said she had a good time so I decided I would try to keep up with her over winter break. So I️ snapchatted her two days later and she didn’t respond. Am I wrong for thinking that based off of the times we have met that she is interested in me or am I️ just reading too far into how she acted around me? You're not wrong at all! However it does sound like(if she ognored you for several days..) she may have something else, er..someone else, going on.. Could be as simple as, she liked you but kept her options open. Possibly met someone else? Or went back to an ex.. OR she forgot to respond. Can you reach out over text? Maybe suggest another date. 1
ShyLove Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 What did you snap her? Did it require a response or was it just a video of something random? 1
Author greekfreak Posted December 19, 2017 Author Posted December 19, 2017 You're not wrong at all! However it does sound like(if she ognored you for several days..) she may have something else, er..someone else, going on.. Could be as simple as, she liked you but kept her options open. Possibly met someone else? Or went back to an ex.. OR she forgot to respond. Can you reach out over text? Maybe suggest another date. I can reach out over text but the problem is we are on winter break until mid January so the possibility of a second date is at least a month away
Author greekfreak Posted December 19, 2017 Author Posted December 19, 2017 What did you snap her? Did it require a response or was it just a video of something random? I sent her a picture of something we mentioned when we were eating dinner
Grey40 Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 I think you missed your window of opportunity with this girl. She clearly was into you and gave you a chance but you took to long to make something happen. Should have been more proactive with scheduling dates and when you were in her bed should have tried to make a move. When you didn't she either thought you weren't interested or discovered you were weak and afraid and she lost that initial attraction. However, she might still be interested and is just busy. Why beat around the bush with snapchat? Text her and ask her out again, if she doesn't respond to that, then I'm right. If she does, then keep pursuing and try to make a move next time, even as simple as trying to go for a kiss. 2
Marc878 Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 If you were interested you could have called. Maybe she's getting vibes there isn't much there
Jdoublenn Posted December 19, 2017 Posted December 19, 2017 I can reach out over text but the problem is we are on winter break until mid January so the possibility of a second date is at least a month away I sent her a picture of something we mentioned when we were eating dinner Oh well there was nothing to reply too! Lmao. Text her. Who cares if the next date is a month away... keep in touch and keep chatting until then. Even call her if you’re comfortable with that. I’m sure it would be a nice effort. 1
hercules22 Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 i wouldn't rule her out just yet try to set up another date whats the worst thing that will happen she either replies or ignores you then you get your answer
carhill Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 No real idea on if she's interested but one tip, presuming you're a hetero male, don't sleep in a woman's bed if you're not having sex with her. Sets the wrong tone. Yeah, that's fine for the wheelchair set who can't get it up with a crane but not for a young, vigorous male, especially one who is attracted to her sexually. I recently received such an invitation from a MW and declined, basically telling her if doing so I'd have to make mad passionate love to her and I seriously doubted her husband would appreciate that so no bueno. Women. Women who are interested in you as a man and not a bed warmer will accept kind requests for dates. Ask her. Accept her answer. Good luck! 1
MsJayne Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 (edited) Yeah, that's fine for the wheelchair set who can't get it up with a crane :lmao: Edited December 20, 2017 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Fix quote
smackie9 Posted December 20, 2017 Posted December 20, 2017 Date other women.......if she comes around, make sure sex is involved this time.
Author greekfreak Posted December 23, 2017 Author Posted December 23, 2017 Well I started texting her and she said her schoolwork was really overwhelming since she is failing some classs and she isn’t in a place to focus on eating right now so it’s probaly over. She did say that we will for sure hang out next semester which is contradictory though
mortensorchid Posted December 23, 2017 Posted December 23, 2017 If you like her and want to see her again, CALL HER. Don't snap her or ever text her, CALL her. Texting is a passive way of communication, snapping is inane. Calling is a direct form of communication and you will get your answer if she does not respond.
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