CantDecide... Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 sry this isnt that well writen my depression today isnt making me feel that great so read anyways, nd try to give me some advice. please.. Hey guys im having one of the worst days of this break up im dealing with today. Things with my ex have been so confusing the last 2 months, weve had ups and downs, good times bad times, confusing times, and now its kind of a bad time. We decided that we were going to stay friends which has been really good weve kissed once and hang out 24/7 and talk all the time. last week for example i was with her everyday, and we both said to eachother how much fun we have and how things have been good latly. she said she stil scared to get back feeling the problems we had would come back, they were my problems and ive done a lot to change them and shes seen it. she also said she feels taking me back right now wont make her decision mean anything, and that shell just be giving in. But last night i started getting depressed again. we were talkingas usual and she said she had a head ache and she was just agited in gneral but like she seemed wierd. wierd like maybe she hooked up with somebody, i didnt ask or anything cuz i dont want to show a weakness, so we just tried to make a decent convo but eventually got off. later that night however iwas on myspace leaving her a comment and one of herfriends had left her a comment that said hey i had fun with you tonight i hope i see you 2 morrow maybe well see u know who also??...so i was like ummm ok whats the deal...she was online so i joking asked her and she said it was nothing, maybe im just looking into it to much, but its so hard. things have been realy great with her all last week, and im just scared that shel meet somebody. i dont know what to do. ive been in bed all day just thinking about her, and im sick to my stomach. maybe i just gota give her some more time. thanks for any input
macncheese Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 as hard as it may be....just move on and as cliche as it may be...if its meant to be, youll both find a way back to each other...in time.
sundrop Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 CantDecide, I'm sorry you are having a bad day. I hope you get to feeling better. I don't have any advice to give you. Just hope you feel better and this is all part of the greiving/healing process.
sanne Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 you need to back off man. leave her alone, try and get on with your own life. if she comes back to you, it was meant to be, if not well....you know how it goes.
orto Posted August 22, 2005 Posted August 22, 2005 This is one of the things that pisses me off the most. Women constantly having to satisfy themselves by playing games and not giving straight answers. She needs to decide if she wants to be with you or not. Don't hold on to friendships with the one you love, because it will never help you, in any situation. She needs to seriously grow up and not throw you through hoops. I know your situation because I'm in one kinda like it. I just wish it was easier for women to express themselves to men, without having to throw the "i dont know" answer at people. Try, and i know it's hard, but try to get on with your life for the time being. Hang around your friends, go out places, and most of all MAKE YOUR SELF HAPPY. Be selfish for once, think about only you and only you for the time being.
Author CantDecide... Posted August 22, 2005 Author Posted August 22, 2005 well see the thing is, i cant back off she contacts me usually, sure i will Im her or call ocaisonally but usallually its her. and its so confsuing becasue when we hang out its great its basically like were going out with the exceotion of of kissing, and like we both alwasy say yea i had a great time with you. so its just uhhhh
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