Loveydovey101 Posted December 18, 2017 Posted December 18, 2017 So I’ve been seeing this guy for a week. We really liked eachother and had seen eachother 6 different nights over 8 days. Crazy right. We were acting like a relationship and I asked what we are and he said that we should just take things slow and not label it yet. However he did say we are exclusive. Yet on instagram he replies to public comments with “thanks babe” and has posted pictures of us one of the captions being “relationship goals”. He recently left for vacation and we call and text everyday because we miss eachother and things are going great. We have great communication. But do I even ever bother asking if we are official again and just let it happen? Also why the **** do I over think things when they are obviously going amazing. I’m just here for reassurance
Scarlett.O'hara Posted December 18, 2017 Posted December 18, 2017 Just enjoy getting to know him for now. If you keep pushing it will drive him away. Do you get anxious about a lot of things or is it just about dating? 1
grays Posted December 18, 2017 Posted December 18, 2017 What do you think the difference between being exclusive and being "official" is? If its that he is telling his peeps about you, it seems like he's already doing that.
Sara1989 Posted December 18, 2017 Posted December 18, 2017 It has only been a week, don't get too ahead of yourself and enjoy dating. He has already told you that your exclusive but he doesn't want to label it yet after a mere 8 days. You will scare him away if you carry on like this. 1
act00 Posted December 18, 2017 Posted December 18, 2017 He already said you are exclusive. After one week, I don't think you need to get all over whether it's official or not. Neither of you are seeing other people. Just enjoy it.
caveman621 Posted December 18, 2017 Posted December 18, 2017 A week? And you're exclusive? Not sure what else you might be looking for. Relax and let it happen.
Maggie4 Posted December 18, 2017 Posted December 18, 2017 He wants to "take it slow" by not labeling it. But the two of you are not taking it slow in deed. It's good that he went on vacation. It takes time to know someone. 1
d0nnivain Posted December 18, 2017 Posted December 18, 2017 Go by his behavior not the vocabulary words. I would not ask about making things "official" again until at least after Valentine's Day . . . two months from now. At these early stages talking about certain things & pushy labels too early causes more problems then it solves.
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